New Daughter
Independently Speaking
Publication Date 9-9-99
We had another interesting occurrence last week. We acquired a new
daughter.Well, not really, not one we get to keep, but we do have a lovely
young woman from Germany whos going to stay with us for the next ten months as a
foreign
exchange student.
My wife was concerned about how she would react to our family.
This is a valid concern, of course, because our family is just a tad different, but I
dont think her attitude helps at all. We picked the girl up in our car. She made a
very good
impression on me because everything she needed to survive for one year in a foreign
country was contained within two suitcases. This was late afternoon on the same day
Id
spent carrying mountains of gear up six flights of stairs to my daughters dorm room.
And she only moved thirty miles from home. We loaded the suitcases in the trunk, the young
woman in the back seat and headed toward home.
We were driving along, making pleasant conversation, when
my wife turned in her seat, looked the girl in the eye, got a serious tone in
her voice and said, Nita, one thing you need to know is that you cant believe
ANYTHING
Brent tells you.
That doesnt seem like a good way to build trust.
I think shes still holding a grudge because of the bedtime stories
I used to tell the kids when they were little. Bambi and the Pack of Starving
Wolves. was one of my personal favorites. I did it with gestures and sound effects.
It was really
pretty entertaining, but the kids had a little trouble dropping off to sleep when I
finished.
Anyway, that was a long time ago. Ive learned a lot about kids
since then. For instance, one hard won lesson was that no matter how much personal
amusement you are going to get from it, its stupid to do anything that will keep
young
children from falling to sleep.
That whole sleep thing has nothing to do with Nita, of course. I
was just trying to explain why my wife would feel compelled to tell her not to believe a
word I say. She may have a point, but its going to be a long year if Nita keeps
turning to
my wife and saying No, is that true? every time I make a statement.
Actually, everything has gone very well so far. When we got Nita
to our house we discovered that she liked cats a lot, which is good, because we have a
lot of cats.
Over the next couple days she learned the names of about twenty of them,
helped do the dishes after every meal, and handed me the TV remote control every time I
came into the living room. She eats the food we cook and laughs at most of my jokes. All
in
all, shes a perfect addition to our family.
In fact, she would be perfect if shed just stop looking at my
wife and asking her if Im telling the truth.
copyright 1999 Brent Olson
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