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But just as we forgive those who trespass against us.
We will have measured to us as we measured out to others.
This is not the same, though, as daring to remit the
sins of another. Only God can do so, and infuriated the
priests and scholars of His day on earth when he dared to do so.
The old saying, from Alexander Pope I believe, that to err
is human but to forgive is divine, suggests a truth in
our willingness to forgive, perhaps even when not asked.
But all we can do is forgive, only God can remit.
But for God to remit,
it is also important to know how we've sinned, what
more we've added to our debt before God.
We must know what we are sorry for.
St. Ignatius invented his spiritual exercises in order
to help the early Jesuits discover just this.
Even prayer, the Rosary for example, might help uncloud
the mind for a moment to help us grasp just what we've
done wrong, and how wrong it was.
And just as we ought to receive The Eucharist, where
possible (which is admittedly
quite difficult in these
times), we ought to reflect on our sins, daily, as well.
But this must be so as not to repeat our mistakes;
not to fall into the habits of the world, and traps set often
inadvertently and by the bad habits by others.
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