With peace of mind as our single goal,
forgiveness becomes our
single function.
Forgiveness is the vehicle used for correcting
our misperceptions
and for helping us
let go of fear.
Simply
stated, to forgive is to let go.
Our first step in mind
retraining is to establish peace of mind as our single goal. This
means thinking of ourselves first in terms of self-fullness, not
selfishness. The second step is forgiveness. Many of us become
frustrated when we make the mistake of trying to love others as
the first step. In light of our past distorted values and
experiences, some people simply seem unlovable; because of our
faulty perception of their behavior it is difficult to love them.
When we have peace of mind as a single goal, we can then take the
second step, forgiveness, and choose to see others as extending
Love, or being fearful and calling for help in the form of Love.
With this new perception, it becomes easier to give both total
Love and acceptance to the other person and therefore to
experience inner peace at the same time.
Other people do not have to change for us to experience peace of
mind.
It may be useful to think of the mind as the film, the camera,
and everything else involved in movie production. What we
experience is really our state of mind projected outward upon a
screen called "the world." This world and those in it
actually become the mirror of our thoughts and fantasies. What
our mind projects becomes our perception, which limits our vision
as long as we hold to it.
Our mind functions as if it were split; part of it acts as if it
were directed by our egos, and part by Love. Most of the time,
our mind pays attention to this pseudodirector that we call our
ego, which is simply another name for fear. The ego directs only
movies of war and conflict, although through disguises it makes
them appear as if they were the realization of our romantic
fantasies. It actually directs only movies that project the
illusion that we are all separate from each other. Our true
director, Love, does not project illusions; it only extends the
truth. Love directs movies that unite and join.
Our mind is actually the director, producer, scriptwriter, film
editor, cast, projectionist, audience and critic. Our mind, being
limitless, has the capacity of changing the movie and everything
about it at any time. Our mind has the power of making all
decisions.
The ego part of our mind acts like a curtain of fear and guilt
which blocks out Love. We can learn to direct our mind to open
the curtain and reveal the light of Love that has always been
there and remains our true reality.
Taken from "Love is Letting Go of Fear"
by Gerold Jampolski
The majority of us lead quiet, unheralded lives
as we pass
through this world.
There will most likely be no ticker-tape
parades for us,
no monuments created in our honor.
But that does
not lessen our possible impact,
for there are scores of people
waiting for someone like us to come along-
people who will
appreciate our compassion, our encouragement,
who will need our
unique talents.
Someone who will live a happier life merely
because
we took the time to share what we had to give.
Too often
we underestimate the power of
a touch,
a smile,
a kind word,
a
listening ear,
an honest compliment,
or the smallest act of
caring,
all of which have the potential to turn a life around.
It
is overwhelming to consider the numerous opportunities there are
to make our love felt.
Leo Bascuglia quote.
OPEN ARMS
Love cannot be captured or tied to a wall.
Love only slips
through the chains.
If love wills to take another course, it
goes;
and all the prisons, guards, chains or obstructions in the
world
aren't strong enough to detain it for a second.
Love is always open arms.
With arms open you allow love to come
and go as it will, freely,
for it will do so anyway.
If you close
your arms about love
you'll find you are left only holding
yourself.
Leo Buscaglia quote.
~My Symphony~
To live content with small means and
to seek elegance rather than luxury,
and refinement rather than fashion.
To be worthy, not respectable,
and wealthy, not rich.
To study hard, think quietly,
talk gently, and act frankly.
To listen to stars and birds,
to babes and sages with an open heart.
To bear all cheerfully, do all bravely,
await occasions, hurry never.
In a word, to let the spiritual,
unbidden and unconscious,
grow up through the common.
This...is to be my symphony.
~William Henry Channing~
Create a vision and never let the
environment,
other people's beliefs, or the limits of what
has been done in the past shape your decisions.
Ignore conventional wisdom.
~Anthony Robbins~
Gerald Jampolski and Leo Buscaglia
are two of my favorite authors.
I proudly display a few of their words
upon this page today.
Their teachings have influenced my life
in a very positive way.