Solutions

If you are interested in math, you know there are various ways to get the same answer. Symbolically, that shows there are various avenues to reach the same goal. Solving a problem often becomes very complex and difficult because of that very thing, that is, that there are different ways to handle a problem. Actually, this is a blessing, because having only one way, one method to solve a problem would limit us in our problem solving thinking and creativity. It would also take away any surprise as to ways that a problem could be solved. Think, also, how it would affect us all. It might become extra difficult if the same solution was used for a thinking person, a feeling person, an emotional person, and all the other categories one might use.

When you face a problem, never believe it is unsurmountable. It is usually the size of the problem that causes us to think this is true. To see the whole picture becomes overwhelming and many give up as a result of this view. As in math, one must take a number at a time, a section, a piece. The problem has to be broken down into smaller equations. When the size is reduced and sometimes separated it can then be addressed differently. At times it is like taking a puzzle apart and putting it together again. This is not to say that it is easy. Looking at the details of a problem can be difficult, so again, one must look at various avenues, various paths that can be taken to reach a solution.

Solving a problem isn't always a success story. We think the problem is solved and it comes up again and again. This is frustrating as it forces us to try again and again. Puzzles cannot be put together the same way by doing exactly the same thing it took to put it together the first time. Actually, it would be almost impossible to do so. No one remembers piece for piece, the steps taken to complete a puzzle, so we must begin with patience and begin a step at a time. Walking these steps, trying to find a solution sometimes robs us of the overview, the strength we are developing and the creativity we are using. It is not a negative thing to get help. Having another look at the problem and seek solutions from a different set of eyes and understanding can help along the path to a solution. Too often we try to carry the burden ourselves. It is perceived as a weakness to ask for help. This is not true for we are meant to help each other. We all have different perspectives and skills and levels of understanding. The next time you are seeking a solution, reach out to others, and if someone is also seeking, be there to offer help. We are here for each other.