Disaster

        Disaster, throughout time there has been disaster, of natural or man made origin. This disaster is of evil origin in the sense that it was intended to destroy - not just the many lives but to destroy a way of life, to send a message of fear. When we have our sense of safety taken from us, it creates an atmosphere of uncertainty that is difficult to repair. It is not knowing what is to come next, not knowing how to be safe and secure, not knowing if we are stepping into an area of danger. It preys on the mind and creates physical and emotional distress that creates imbalance. The world is in a state of unrest and those of darkest intent are there to take advantage of that unrest.

        These are difficult times and in the forseeable future, it does not appear that peace is on the horizon. How do we cope with this? How do we come to terms with the idea that our lives have been changed? Extreme change that affects a nation, perhaps the world, is unsettling and that is where the insecurity and fear begins to take root. It is wise to take a few moments from the sadness and the loss, it is wise to calm the spirit and the soul. It is wise to collect one's thoughts and calm one's feelilngs in order to think of daily living as well as survival.

        Moving through life in a stunned disbelieving way is the result of shock. Those who have lost loved ones have the most difficult steps to take. Their lives will never be the same. We must shift out attention to that which is strengthening and support those who give so much of themselves in times of emergencies. Their bravery and those who give of their spirit in helpful ways are a role model for others. Do not forget that they, too, will need solace and aid when they get to the end of their difficult task.

        Be aware that things have changed. Be aware that there is a different mind set that will have to be dealt with and incorporated into your lives. Some freedom will be lost in the name of safety. Trust and openness will be changed and people will be more cautious. At the same time, take heart in the many examples of giving and sharing, both monetarily and gifts of the spirit. This will not just pass, this is a memory within us all. It is life changing....we will not be the same. As you grieve those you have lost and grieve a way of life, remember that there is hope among the ashes, that it may not be evident in the days to come, but supporting each other in a warm and giving way will help the wounds that many will carry. Prepare yourself mentally for changing times.. Be strong in your faith, be caring of each other, and never let the spirit hide in darkness.