Between here and there, then and now, there is a moment. We seldom recognize 'moments'. We do remember the moment when a specific thing happens. It can be a sight never to be forgotten, an experience felt, reaction to words, or sudden realization. The moment becomes larger and has the ability to make time stand still. If we are participants in the moment, it can be an unreal sense of time as time seems to stop. A few seconds can become minutes in one's perception. How you act in those moments also becomes a memory as much a part of the action whether or not the person is actively involved or not. When you have special moments, file them in your visual memory. If it is not painful, bring them up to take another look. See if your perception of that moment has changed or if it has stayed the same. Ask yourself how you handled the moment, whether you learned from it, why it is a unique moment. Handle your moments well.