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Well, I'm not sure why I felt compelled to make this page, but here goes!

This was written by one of my really good friends, so read up, and enjoy!

FIVE ALIVE'S 27+ HELPFUL HINTS ON

HOW TO TREAT A LADY
  1. Pray with us.
  2. Be open; don't hide your feelings.
  3. Cuddle often; we love being held.
  4. Be fun-loving.
  5. Tell us what you like.
  6. Massage our back and feet; get good at it.
  7. Listen attentively when we share our feelings or tell a story; selective listening is not appreciated; give feedback, but don't interrupt.
  8. Wear cologne (Unless we're allergic).
  9. Make us feel attractive and important.
  10. Fresh breath is a must! Always brush your teeth before coming to visit us. Simple chronic halitosis is offensive. No one is safe--use protection; keep mints or gum handy.
  11. Tilt head when kissing, and not every kiss requires tongue.
  12. Be generous with compliments; we need affirmation.
  13. Slow dance with us in private.
  14. Play with our hair, unless it's full of hairspray.
  15. Make known your appreciation for little things.
  16. Write poems; read poetry.
  17. Send thoughtful notes to us through the mail.
  18. Share in our excitement and in our troubles.
  19. Look into our eyes when talking.
  20. Be generous in giving of time and self.
  21. Kiss in places on face other than lips. e.g.: forehead, cheek, nose.
  22. Doing little thoughtful things once a week makes the world a happier place.
  23. Wear khaki pants.
  24. Be on time, but have a magazine handy or carry a scripture to memorize.
  25. Touch face when kissing; initiate kisses aggressively like in "Top Gun".
  26. Be a gentleman; open doors, help us on with our coat, pull out our chair.
  27. Smile.
  28. Understand PMS (even though we don't).
  29. Surprise us.
  30. Splurge occasionally.
  31. Kiss on the neck without leaving your mark.
  32. Remember special occasions.
  33. Send flowers for no reason at all and for special occasions; one rose twelve times is better than twelve roses one time.
  34. Clip your toenails.
  35. Be creative when planning dates.
  36. Plan dates.
  37. Cook us dinner.
  38. If you can sing, serenade us.
  39. Always try to see things from our perspective; we will do the same for you.

    Relational Dates
    Some of these date you may consider silly, but read through, and see what you think. I will be adding more ideas, so check back often.
      Here's a list of dates that are:
    • Out of the ordinary
    • Inexpensive
    • Promote Communication
    1. Test-Drive Cars-- Dress up and hit the new and used car lots.
    2. Water Fountain Tour-- Locate indoor and outdoor water fountains in your area. Get a roll of nickels or pennies and go with another couple to the fountain to pitch coins and make wishes (out loud!).
    3. $ 2 Shopping Spree-- Go on a double date to a shopping mall. Limit your budget to $ 2 each, then find a gift for your date for that amount. Guys with guys, girls with girls. Everyone meets in 30 minutes to give their gifts.
    4. Lights, Camera Action!-- This would be great for a double date. Get a camcorder and videotape. Go to a library and find a good short story. Have both couples read the short story and then make it into a movie. Watch it and have popcorn and soft drinks.
    5. Sunday School Switch-- Together, offer to substitute teach for an elementary school Sunday school class. You'll get a sense of your date's Christian maturity, and you'll see how much he or she cares for children.