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College Age Ministries
Well, I'm not sure why I felt compelled to make this page, but here goes!
This was written by one of my really good friends, so read up, and enjoy!
FIVE ALIVE'S 27+ HELPFUL HINTS ON
HOW TO TREAT A LADY
- Pray with us.
- Be open; don't hide your feelings.
- Cuddle often; we love being held.
- Be fun-loving.
- Tell us what you like.
- Massage our back and feet; get good at it.
- Listen attentively when we share our feelings or tell a story; selective
listening is not appreciated; give feedback, but don't interrupt.
- Wear cologne (Unless we're allergic).
- Make us feel attractive and important.
- Fresh breath is a must! Always brush your teeth before coming to visit us.
Simple chronic halitosis is offensive. No one is safe--use protection;
keep mints or gum handy.
- Tilt head when kissing, and not every kiss requires tongue.
- Be generous with compliments; we need affirmation.
- Slow dance with us in private.
- Play with our hair, unless it's full of hairspray.
- Make known your appreciation for little things.
- Write poems; read poetry.
- Send thoughtful notes to us through the mail.
- Share in our excitement and in our troubles.
- Look into our eyes when talking.
- Be generous in giving of time and self.
- Kiss in places on face other than lips. e.g.: forehead, cheek, nose.
- Doing little thoughtful things once a week makes the world a happier place.
- Wear khaki pants.
- Be on time, but have a magazine handy or carry a scripture to memorize.
- Touch face when kissing; initiate kisses aggressively like in "Top Gun".
- Be a gentleman; open doors, help us on with our coat, pull out our chair.
- Smile.
- Understand PMS (even though we don't).
- Surprise us.
- Splurge occasionally.
- Kiss on the neck without leaving your mark.
- Remember special occasions.
- Send flowers for no reason at all and for special occasions;
one rose twelve times is better than twelve roses one time.
- Clip your toenails.
- Be creative when planning dates.
- Plan dates.
- Cook us dinner.
- If you can sing, serenade us.
- Always try to see things from our perspective; we will do the same for you.
Relational Dates
Some of these date you may consider silly, but read through, and see what you think. I will be adding more ideas, so check back often.
Here's a list of dates that are:
- Out of the ordinary
- Inexpensive
- Promote Communication
- Test-Drive Cars-- Dress up and hit the new and used car lots.
- Water Fountain Tour-- Locate indoor and outdoor water fountains in your area. Get a roll of nickels or pennies and go with another couple to the fountain to pitch coins and make
wishes (out loud!).
- $ 2 Shopping Spree-- Go on a double date to a shopping mall. Limit your budget to $ 2 each, then find a gift for your date for that amount. Guys with guys, girls with girls. Everyone meets in 30 minutes to give
their gifts.
- Lights, Camera Action!-- This would be great for a double date. Get a camcorder and videotape. Go to a library and find a good short story. Have both couples read the short story and then make it into a movie. Watch it and have popcorn and soft drinks.
- Sunday School Switch-- Together, offer to substitute teach for an elementary school Sunday school class. You'll get a sense of your date's Christian maturity, and you'll see how much he or she cares for children.