The Fruit Bowl
In Galations 5:22,23 we find a listing of the Fruit of the Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, and Self-Control. We're told in God's Word that people will know us by our fruit. That's how they will be able to tell if we are followers and servants of Christ. The Bible also tells us that God will cut off the branches that don't bear good fruit! Yikes! This fruit thing is pretty important, isn't it?! Well, here we will feature one of these "fruits" in each issue, starting with the first fruit mentioned: Love. Do you think that the "fruit" you bear is good? Do you think that people are able to tell that you are a Christian by the way that you act or respond in different situations? Let's take a look at this issue's featured fruit...Self-control!
SELF-CONTROL
I remember learning about the fruit of the Spirit in kindergarten at the Christian school I went to back then. For some reason the lesson on self-control is the one I recall the clearest. Perhaps that’s because my teacher especially wanted us to exercise THAT fruit of the Spirit while in class! :) Seriously though, self-control is a very important character trait for anyone to have especially those of us who claim to follow Christ. But it's also an extremely difficult one to portray much less produce consistently. Most definitely being self-controlled takes a lot of practice, effort, and will power. It’s not easy task to undertake!
Let’s define what self-control is before we move any farther in this study… Webster’s dictionary has this to say about the meaning of self-control: “Restraint exercised over one’s own actions, impulses, emotions, or desires.” In plain English, self-control is YOU keeping yourself from acting on impulse and doing what you know you shouldn’t do. It’s taking responsibility for your actions AND resolving to discipline yourself. No wonder it’s so hard! We’re talking about controlling our sinful nature here! But can you see why it’s so important as well?
Proverbs gives us a clear illustration of the value of self-control. “Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control” (Proverbs 25: 28) In ancient times, large and powerful walls were built around most cities for protection. The walls helped to keep intruders out of the city and provided safety to those who were inside. They also served as a watchtower in many cases for soldiers to monitor things around them from up off the ground and be ready to defend if need be. When the walls were broken down the city was in serious trouble! Anyone could just come in and attack the citizens or steal from them or whatever else. Their security would be damaged and the whole city would suffer as a result. When we act or react without thinking things trough we oftentimes end up with just as many problems and possible disasters as the citizens of the city whose walls have been broken down. It’s like inviting trouble and then not being able to defend yourself. And just as that city can’t operate well without its walls, self-control is necessary for us to function as well.
Another interesting thing I found while researching for this study was that self-control was often associated with being alert and clearminded in the Scriptures. 1 Peter 5:8 tells us to be self-controlled and alert because our enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. I believe this warning is referring to temptation and the fact that we need to keep ourselves alert to the world around us and self-controlled so that we will be able to recognize the devil even when he is in disguise. If you are easily pulled into worldly things then you won’t realize that you’ve been deceived until the devil has a firm hold on your life. So you must be alert and self-controlled, and as the King James Version Bible says “vigilant”, which basically means “watchful”.
1 Peter 4:7 says, "The end of all things is near. Therefore be clearminded and self-controlled so that you can pray.” I had never really thought about this before but now I think it makes a good point. When you can’t (or don’t) control yourself you end up distracted most of the time. It’s kind of hard to pray when you are distracted and not clearminded. Time is short, how short we don’t know for sure, but every day that passes is one day closer to the second coming of Christ. If we are to be effective servants of God, we HAVE to be focused and self-controlled enough to pray…talk to God AND listen as well.
1 Thessalonians advises us to not be like others (those in the world) who are asleep, but to be alert and self-controlled. (1 Thessalonians 5:6) And then verse 8 of the same chapter says, “But since we belong to day, let us be self-controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet.” These days self-control doesn’t seem to be a very big issue in the world. Since we’re so often told to do what we want to (even if it’s on impulse), and responsibility for a person’s actions can be explained away by a number of excuses (a bad childhood, not understanding the “offense”, etc.), self-control is rarely advocated. But even if the standards of the world are not so high, God’s expectations and requirements are! We don’t belong to the world…the night…the darkness, we are children of the Most High God and we must be self-controlled and alert whether those around us are or not.
Along those same lines, Titus 2:11-12 says, “For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say ‘NO’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright, and godly lives in this present age.” So the grace of God that brings salvation helps us to deny our fleshly nature and other worldly “passions” so that we can be self-controlled and live the way God wants us to even in THIS present age. Then, over in 1 Peter 1:13 we’re given this admonition, “Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed." So again we see that grace has a part in this whole being self-controlled idea. The grace of God teaches us to live self-controlled lives, but we also should set our hope fully on the grace to be given us when Jesus Christ is revealed, while being self-controlled and preparing our minds for action.
So is self-control something that only those of us who are young have to deal with? No… I think it’s something that we have to perfect and work out our whole lives through. The book of Titus gives us examples of qualities for people of all ages to be taught. Self-control (whether the actual word or just an example of a form of self-control) appears in the list of every age group…older men, older women, younger men, and younger women. Being self-controlled was also a requirement for any person with a position of leadership in the church. Self-control was that important…everyone was expected to have and live in it!
So now perhaps we all understand a little better the value and importance of self-control. It’s not simple to keep ourselves from doing the things of the world a lot of times, I know. But we can rely on the grace of God to help us to say “no” to ungodliness and every other thing that distracts us from being clearminded and alert the way God wants us to be. I’ll leave you with this last thought… I believe that the devil works through our lack of self-control and our Heavenly Father works through our self-control put into practice. Think about that…who is working through your actions?
PREVIOUSLY FEATURED FRUITS
LOVE
JOY
PEACE
PATIENCE
KINDNESS
GOODNESS
FAITHFULNESS
GENTLENESS
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