Your attractiveness isn't just physical. The old adage that "love is blind" comes from an old fashioned truth that your inner spirit is your center of attractiveness. When inner spirits connect, love often results.
Think of the so-called beautiful people you've met who aren't really so attractive. Recall people you've been attracted to without an obvious physical connection. This experience supports the idea that attractiveness and attraction is more "magick and musk" than looks and smiles.
In order to understand your inner beauty, pay attention to how you react to new people in your life. Are you shy? Are you judgmental or ciritical? when you meet someone for the first time, do you tend to like or dislike that person right away? Now assess yourself and the reactions to people you meet, whethter they are romantic intestest or not, this will help you learn about your emotional generosity and how open you are to new people.
The more you are able to listen to what people have to say, and to allow yourself to form an opinion slowly, the more openly they will perceive you. If you can relax and show people a little bit about yourself while allowing them to do the same, you will find it very easy to attract romantic prospects. If you are very closed, you will need to work hard on this part of yourself in order to get the attraction §pells to work.