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Question UPDATED May 2007 This is the page where I post a question for all to read. If you find this page, and have an answer to this question, please E-mail me at misterallo@hotmail.com so I may have a little more knowledge about the subject. I will still leave the answer to the VERY FIRST question I asked, way back in 1997. The question was why do women go after A-holes, while nice guys always seem to get the shaft. The answer is very accurate. Here's a new question to ponder. Why do celebrities HAVE to apologize whenever they make an irrational comment, or a racial remark, or any other thing that might be deemed "inappropriate?" I mean, there is a little something called freedom of speech. There's so many different kinds of people out there. It's a guarantee that someone out there will be offended to something. These people just need to accept the fact that they were offended, accept that someone out there doesn't like them, or doesn't respect them, and focus on the people who do respect them, who do like them. I mean the celebrities may not be as well liked or respected after making such comments or remarks, but that would be their problem. Being an overweight person, whenever I hear a fat joke on TV or something, do you know what I do? I move on with my life and don't hold a press conference saying that I am deeply offended. Some perfect examples of how bad it has gotten are those Geico commercials with the cavemen. There's a cave man who gets really offended when Geico claims their insurance is "So easy a cave man can do it." It's a funny commercial, but it's exactly how our society is. So there's my question: Why do celebrities HAVE to apologize whenever they make an irrational comment, or a racial remark, or any other thing that might be deemed "Inappropriate?" If you'd like to contribute an answer or a comment on what I have written, E-mail me at misterallo@hotmail.com This is a page dealing with my opinions and thoughts. In no way does this page intend on offending anyone. If you feel that I have offended you in any way, please disregard thinking that. These are only MY thoughts. Thanks for reading this! The next paragraph deals with the answer to the very first question I asked. QUESTION ANSWERED!!!!!!! 12/14/97!!!!!!Well, the question was answered! I was watching TV late at night, and I was watching the Charles Grodin show. A person had written into the show, asking why girls claim they like "Nice" guys, but go out with jerks. I couldn't believe my eyes! Someone else had actually written in. There were a few doctors on the show, and a few reporters, and Charles Grodin of course! But, they did give an answer. All the people who have E-mailed me responses to this question were right in their own way, but what I saw put the icing on the cake! The answer that they gave was that most, well, a lot of females have grown up in either abusive families, or families who've neglected them, or what have you. And, they seek that in their OWN relationships! So, that is why women are attracted to jerks, b/c that is what they are used to, and in their subconscious minds, they think they can somehow solve the problem that they had as children, and growing up! Does it make sense to you? It should, b/c it's VERY true! There are girls who DO go out with nice guys, those are the girls who had loving parents, and affectionate parents, and didn't have a care in the world! You just have to look for THOSE girls, and just hope the the girls who go out with jerks will someday realize that it's not THEIR fault that they are attracted to jerks, and maybe dump the jerks! Wouldn't that be nice? Then all the jerks can spend Saturday nights at home instead of the nice guys! Of course, there are a few exceptions to this answer. Isn't there ALWAYS exceptions? 1. The girl might just have bad luck in dating men. Attracting men who just treat them like shit! 2. The girl feels rebellious, and just wants to go out with a jerk, b/c they usually are the ones who are adventurous, and who do dangerous things. The girl just wants to be daring. So, there are your exceptions that I can think of at this time. Of course, there will be ladies E-mailing me about this too! Well, GO AHEAD!!! HAHAHAHAHAAHAHA! My advice for nice guys would be, to just be yourself. If a girl doesn't like you b/c of you being nice, then, just be a friend, and move on to someone else. For shy guys, don't worry, the day will come where you can actually look at girls and not start to stutter, or start to look the other way. The day WILL COME! Look at me? One day, I met this girl, and she fell in love with me, even though I was a good guy, and not an A-hole! Just relax, and enjoy being single! Be single as long as you can! *laugh* |
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