~~Questions for the Novice~~

My dearest ^cadet^,

I wanted to take this time to thank you for expressing an interest in this lifestyle. The journey of submission is a long but most rewarding one...one where only the strong survive.

Actually, only a person of strength is worthy of being a submissive. As time goes on, we will discuss this in greater depth. For now, suffice it to say...your interest is appreciated.

As flattered as I am to be petitioned, I feel there are several areas we need to cover before a decision can be made, either way. In your next letter I would like you to answer the following questions. These will help me to better understand you and your needs...and therefore aid me in assessing the viability of an arrangement between us.

1. What causes you to feel you are a submissive male?
2. Do you have any past experiences dating back as far as your childhood that you feel influenced you in this direction?
3. What fantasies are evoked when thinking of bdsm?
4. What aspects most intrigue you?
5. Do you have any real experience? Have you ever been restrained?
6. Are you able to follow orders, without question?
7. Do you feel that such an arrangement could be managed without it effecting your life outside of said arrangement?
8. List your fears....beginning at the strongest.
9. List the things in life that mean the most to you...in order of importance.
10. List aspects of your personality that you feel are your best assests, and your least favourite.
11. If you could change things about yourself...with a wave of a wand...what would they be?

I look forward to hearing from you.

Sincerely,
Lady Catherine.

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