The Matron

Perhaps this is not the best time to tell you about the girl, but anyway. My brother- in -law's girlfriend is quiet tall, heavily built and likes to wear mini - mini skirts, even though she has ample thighs , she's very matronly -like. I don't really care what she wears, and I really don't care about her fullstop, but I don't like her. Who my Bro-in-law decides to blankety-blank, is his business, but when this girl intrudes on my marriage, then that's when I get angry.

Let me explain. When I was away in China, they came over to my house and proceeded to bitch about me, IN MY HOUSE, BEHIND MY BACK. I found out from a good friend who was told the gory details by my husband. My friend calls this girl "Heiffer". The name really does suit her. Any way, this girl always undermines me, in front of my husbands family at every opportunity. I really don't want to go into it, because there is no point. Lets just say she must feel threatened by me, for some reason. It could be because my Brother -in- law and I used to be very close, and perhaps she resents that. I never have interfered into their lives and I don't want to

My bro-in-law told me that she doesn't like me because of something I said to her, but I know she misunderstood what I said as I've always been very courteous and careful when speaking to her. Even so, she holds a grudge against me. I feel, that she should have confronted me straight away so I could explain, rather then let things fester until she holds a grudge against me. How can I fix things, when I find out about them one and a half years after it happened? I can tell you, that I never intetionally set out to upset her.

She is the most obsequious person I've known since Uriah Heep, she sucks up to the family nonstop, even other family members notice (my father-in-law hates her, because he says he can see straight through her). I just don't trust her. There is something about her that I can't put my finger on, but it distresses me. I know she loves my bro-in-law and that makes me happy that someone loves him, and I know that he cares for her too, but I wish she would leave me and my husband out of her vendetta. The less said about her the better. One thing I will tell you. When my father-in-law didn't want her to come to my wedding, I made sure that she did (it took alot of convincing), but I had to promise him that she wouldn't sit at the family table. Anyway I told my friends (they'd never met her before) to be nice to her at my wedding because she would feel out of place, and I sat her with them. On my wedding day we had gatecrashers and they were seated at my friends table. It was very squashy so "Heiffer" asked my sis-in-law, if she could go and sit at the family table (she knew she wasn't allowed to) with my bro-in-law. Anyway she ended up sitting at the Aunties and Uncles table. I think she was pleased. Later on, my friends told me how they had tried to make a conversation with her and include her, and that she had ignored them and snubbed them. She totally thwarted their attempts to be nice to her. They said that they could see her plotting and planning to get her way over to sitting at the family table. My friends were not impressed.

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