Primacy Rule:
The choice for the affair was yours alone. Now your primary responsibility is to shield your spouse and family from the potentially destructive effects of that choice. The positive effects sought from your affair cannot remain positive if your choice does injury.
Submit Stories.
The purpose of this section is to collect applicable stories on your experiences with extra-marital affairs and to make these stories available to other women who wish to read them. This will be a valuable resource for women in the decision making process. There is one practical hint I would like to pass on: Write for your audience. In my office I have a myriad of photographs on the wall. Among these photographs are pictures of eight married women I know. As I write, these eight women are my audience. "How can I write it so they would best understand", is the question foremost in my mind. This works well. Now, in order for me to post these stories or use them in my book, the characters must be absolutely anonymous. Use false names and last initials only. Use good detail, but put no one at risk of embarrassment or injury. This is vitally important. This web site is not intended to create harm.
To Use: Click on Continue, cut and paste story and send.
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