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Kids & Custody

Children are the true victims in the process of Ex Parte' and Divorce. The worst part about the whole process is that they are frequently used as pawns to get money and property by women from men. It is truly a despicable act to use children in this manner and goes straight to the heart of character of a person who uses children as pawns to further their own needs and desires. When it comes to people of middle and upper class finances, child support is nothing more than a lucrative tax-free money grab. The worst part about it is that the children don't get the benefit of most of the money. It would be one thing if it were truly spent on the kids, but in most cases, it is spent for the benefit of the custodial parent. You can require monthly receipts on expenditures for the kids as a means of trying to keep her honest by use of public scrutiny, i.e. someone is watching, however, you really can't require her to spend it on the kids.

You need to decide for yourself if you are capable of taking care of the kids. Remember, there is support and the court does accept after-hours childcare from the time they get out of school till you get home from work. If your child does not yet go to school then daycare is an acceptable form of childcare to the courts. If you are not good at cooking or cleaning, hire someone. Any lawyer trying to argue lack of parental care if you use childcare, maid, cook or after hours child care will have to face the same argument for your spouse, you both have to work. In fact extra child support can be gotten for this care. The courts do not like to change child custody unless there is solid evidence of child abuse, and drug or alcohol abuse, as a result it is very difficult to get custody back from the party who has the kids.

Family Law Title 9. Child Custody and Visitation Know your rights and the Law.

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These web sites may be helpful:

Ways in which to create a Juvenile Delinquent

Men’s Health Network

History of Child Custody

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