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Family Law Title 9. Child Custody and Visitation Know your rights and the Law.

• Consistently not having the kids ready for visitation and then blaming the kids for not being ready without prior mutual consent. Call the police to enforce the court order. Make sure you have a copy of the court order any time you have the kids. Your only hope of documenting her interference in visitation is to call the police, the court will not take you seriously.
• Having the kids at different locations for visitation pickup without prior mutual consent. Call the police to enforce the court order.
• Sending the kids off somewhere else prior to visitation to deliberately delay pick up without prior mutual consent. Call the police to enforce the court order
• Taking the kids to the doctors without notifying the non-custodial parent in a timely fashion.
• Having medical procedures performed without prior mutual consent or notification.
• Scheduling doctor appointments weeks in advance on a visitation day and then telling the non-custodial parent of the appointment the day before or the day of the appointment without prior mutual agreement or timely notification. Agreement by Fait Accompli.
• Scheduling doctor appointments as above and then offering to take the kids to the doctor in effect cutting off or reducing the kid's visitation time with the non-custodial parent.
• Running up medical bills in order to raise child support.
• Overstating the grocery bills in order to raise child support.
• Having the non-custodial parent take kids to the doctor in the attempt to make the non-custodial parent pay for the visit despite them already paying child support and health insurance in most cases.
• Not buying clothes for the kids and telling them there is no money for clothing while receiving child support and then making the non-custodial parent shop for clothes without reimbursement.
• Having the non-custodial parent buy the kids essentials by promising reimbursement and then reneging on payment.
• Attempts to reduce visitation by claiming disruption to the kids, your active schedule, missing of visitation time, etc.
• False accusations, normally indicated by no evidence or witness(es).
• Claiming inability to work outside the home or reduced work hours due to medical reasons or kids in order to get alimony or increase child support payments.
• Trashing the character or making accusations against the other parent in the presence of the kids.
• Withholding of evidence by her lawyer despite repeated requests, basically playing chicken with the legal process then facetiously claiming the amount of documentation is beyond the Interrogatories and Documentation requests and therefore onerous. Most reputable lawyers will advise full and complete disclosure to their clients.
• Filing of unsubstantiated accusations in court petitions is a sign of a sleazy lawyer at work, most reputable lawyers will not file an accusation without some kind of proof in order to protect their clients against a liable, slander or defamation of character suit.
• Charging up the credit cards in an effort to get as much as possible before filing for divorce or other legal action. They then turn around and declare bankruptcy leaving you with the entire debt.
• Taking out credit cards in joint name without your knowledge and then charging up to the limits. They then turn around and declare bankruptcy leaving you with the entire debt. This is fraud, call the police. Take advantage of a free credit report it will list all the credit cards you have. Have your lawyer write to the major credit agencies and put out a fraud alert requiring proof of identity and your verbal authorization for opening a joint account with your name on it.

Child Visitation Interference in Divorce

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