Happenings & Letters in Wicca


Fight the Fear Days!

Wear a purple ribbon along with other Pagans and we can show each other solidarity. You will find that you are not alone. Pagans and other religiously tolerant people are the only one's who will know what the ribbon is for. When someone asks you what the ribbon is for, say "religious tolrance." If you are in the broom closet, you need not say anymore. If you wish to, you might explain to the person that you are a Pagan and what that means. Won't it be great to see other purple ribbons and know that you're not the only one? This can only happen, however, if every pagan who knows about it, wears one. To learn more, click on the picture below.


Pagans are struggling for understanding and the consideration that is due any law-abiding group. They are also joining the movement towards philosophical and religious tolerance. In this world of many differing cultures, beliefs, ideologies and paths to enlightenment, we must learn to accept that people can have different thoughts, different feelings, and different ways without harming each other or infringing upon each other’s rights. There are some basic guidelines that all humans will have to follow if this ideal is ever going to come close to being realized: do what you wish, as long as you harm no-one.

Yes, this modern version of the last line in the Wiccan Rede is powerfully significant. I have heard it criticized because some people say it is impossible to go through life never hurting anyone – often you aren’t even aware of the ripple effect caused by your actions. That is a valid point, but this line in the Rede is a statement of an ideal. Life is rarely ideal, but we must strive in the direction of ideals if we are to function on any level beyond subsistence. The human race has come to an era where living by the rule of survival of the fittest would lead to complete destruction. We have to take a different approach.

The CRAFT ribbon campaign is a way for people who believe in creating religious freedom, acceptance and tolerance to become more visible and more influential. People throughout history have banded together to conquer and to wage war. Let us enter a new era and band together to create peace.

~Gillian Durham


In Recent News...
Jacquielynn Floyd: Why all the intolerance, pray tell? 10/05/2000
By Jacquielynn Floyd / The Dallas Morning News


Bully for Mayor Ron Kirk, who listened respectfully to the invocation before Wednesday's Dallas City Council meeting. He didn't hear anything to get upset about, and he had the good sense to say so.

After a week's delay wrought by invitation, un-invitation and re-invitation, Bryan Lankford, a Wiccan minister from Mesquite, delivered the opening prayer for the meeting. Local clergy of different faiths are invited in turn to deliver the invocation, a pleasant formality before the sometimes-contentious and frequently boring business at hand.

But (predictably) the issue turned into a fierce little tempest, pitting either – depending on which side is talking – faithful Christians against cult weirdos or small-minded busybodies against a peaceable religious minority.

My personal taste in religion runs to the conventional – I didn't find the Methodists oppressive enough to inspire any lasting rebellion – but I can't find fault with any doctrine that urges its adherents toward decency and compassion. I don't know much about Wiccans except what I've read since this issue came up, but based on the things I heard them say at City Hall, they readily passed that test.

Best behavior

The 50 or so Wiccans who came downtown for the occasion were on their best behavior, too. There was certainly an eccentric element among their ranks – magenta-haired kids who looked like refugees from a Deep Ellum goth club, a guy named Trickster who looked like his time machine is permanently stuck on "1968" – but nobody who struck me as scary or objectionable or even unfriendly.

Plenty has been said and written about the female deity, the love of nature and other elements of the Wiccan faith. Nothing I've read and nobody I talked to at City Hall struck me as offensive, but the trappings – spells and pentagrams and so forth – seem to unhinge a lot of ordinarily reasonable people.

The Wiccans I met seemed like nice, if self-consciously countercultural folks – lots of unreconstructed hippies and New Agers with toe rings – but a lot of people seem determined to believe that "pagan" means cartoon devil worshipers straight off a heavy-metal album cover.

Here's some of what Mr. Lankford said in his invocation. Judge for yourself:

"Mother Goddess, Father God," he said in opening, and I doubt Mr. Lankford would have objected if some in the audience preferred to pick just one or the other.

"We ask that you bless this council and the mayor with wisdom to lead this city into our tomorrows, that it may flourish in harmony and prosperity." Can't quarrel with that!

"May we show compassion for those whose lives are not as easy as our own. ... We pray for honesty, love, compassion and faith. ... We ask this of deity in whatever form each of us perceives it."

He continued:

"We ask this city be transformed with the harmony and balance that faith in a greater power brings."

No harm done

No goats were sacrificed. The prayer was an easy segue into the Pledge of Allegiance (although I could hear some mischievous Wiccans behind me slyly amending the words to "one nation under Goddess ...").

The only awkward moments came when one guy tried to shout Mr. Lankford down – the mayor threatened to have the heckler thrown out – and when three speakers bawled out the council for allowing the Wiccan invocation.

"Will the next prayer be offered by the KKK?" one woman demanded, an especially unpleasant effort, I thought, to draw an unsavory and unfair parallel.

Mr. Kirk was swift to respond that there wasn't a darn thing in the invocation to find fault with. As far as I'm concerned, the mayor's answer goes for me, too:

"The City Council is not in the business of choosing one faith over another," he said. "I was moved by the invocation that was given today, as I have been before." An invocation is a prayer, he reminded the audience, not a manifesto.

And finally, I might add what so many of our mothers told us, but so many of us sometimes forget: You don't have to agree with everybody. You just have to be polite.

Jacquielynn Floyd can be reached at 214-977-8065 or jfloyd@dallasnews.com.

Letters

Holiday History Wars


I always appreciate members of my e-groups and other lists sending in the shocking and offensive things they find that the Christian evangelists and prostheletizers are saying bout Wiccans and other Pagans. It's important for us to know what is going on out in the world and to see just how painful it is when someone tries to convert you to their religion. Maybe that will remind us never to prostheletize for Wicca or Paganism.
So now the Christians are fighting us for the ownership of Halloween? You know, I have heard both Pagans and Christians offering about a hundred different and contradictory histories about where Halloween came from (and where Wicca came from and where Christianity came from) and I'm beginning to get tired of the history wars. We can never know what truly happened in the past. As they say, history is written by the winners (of the wars).
On the evening of October 31st, all I was concerned with was getting the Jack-o-Lantern out on the front porch to guide the trick-or-treaters, getting my candles lit in the windows before dark to guide the spirits, blessing the house, and getting the spray glitter on myself thick enough so that the fae would dance along with me that night (-;
It is the present that concerns me the most. How I live, who my friends are, how I contribute to society, how I treat my loved ones, how I manage to deal with the harsh realities of life, and whether or not I am fulfilled as a human being. I don't need history to teach me those things. I have my feelings and observations to teach me, I have my friends and family to teach me, I have the trials and tribulations of life to teach me, and I have the Mother Earth, the God, and the Goddess to teach me. Although historical musings are very interesting, ultimately I don't care what the holidays were like in the past, because I'm going to celebrate them my way, in the here and now, regardless.
I've decided to celebrate Samhain for myself and with my Wicca friends, Halloween (costumes, candy, parties, The Monster Mash) with my muggle friends, and to ignore anyone who feels they need to convert me to their version of history or any holiday.
~Gillie

In response to an article in the news on the CBS.com website for WSBT22:


Article: Some parents in Niles are upset over a witchcraft book that was given to some students by a teacher. Diane and Brian Wozniack found the book in their daughter's room. It's called "Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner." They say the book is inappropriate and talks about magic spells, daggers and satanism.

It belongs to an 8th grade science teacher at Ring Lardner Junior High.The teacher, Cheryl Malinowski, was suspended for three days for givingthe book to students. Malinowski served her suspension and is teaching again. School administrators are now reviewing their policy on appropriate and inappropriate resource materials.


I wrote the webmasters:

In your article about the book "Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner" being given to a student by a public school teacher,only one side of the argument was given.

The accusations of the people who were opposed to this teacher's actions were given, but nothing was mentioned about the teachers point of view or any other opinions about why the school board might be reconsidering their decision to suspend the teacher.

The article leaves it sounding like the accusations about the book's content are true. The fact is, however, that this book does not contain any information about satanism. It is a book about the religion called Wicca which does not embrace belief in any being or deity called "Satan" or even matching the Christian description of "Satan." Furthermore, the precepts that this religion does embrace are completely different from what I understand Satanism to represent. The book that this teacher gave to that student advocates "concern and love for our planet," "improving ourselves and the world in which we live," and doing what we feel is right "as long as it harms none."

In this book, the word "Satan" is mentioned one time as an example of something negative found in other religions.

I quote directly from the book:
"Although we honor and revere the Goddess and the God, we know that we are free souls with full control and responsibility for our lives. We can't point at an image of an evil god, such as Satan, and blame it for our faults and weaknesses. We can't blame fate. Every second of each day we are creating our futures, shaping the courses of our lives. Once a Wiccan takes full responsibility for all that she or he has done, and determines that future actions will be in accord with higher ideals and goals, magic will blossom and life will be a joy."
~Scott Cunningham.

Please publish this letter if you can so that readers may know the other side of the story.

Sincerely,
Gillian Durham


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To Choose Knowledge or Ignorance?

One of the many brands of internet filtering programs is called McAfee’s GuardDog. A person can buy one of these programs and set them to prevent certain words being searched for or pages including those words from being accessed by someone using the computer. The company shows a sample screen from this program on their website with some sample keywords that you might want to input into the filtering system. The words on the sample screen are "occult, gambling, bombs and explosives, guns and weapons, racism and bigotry, hacking, and violence."

Let's think about this. I could buy this program, set it up in my home, and use it so that my kids (let's just say ages 7, 12, and 15) cannot call up any web page containing the words I cited above. That would mean that they couldn't access a web page discussing the dangers of gambling addiction, or a news story about gambling fraud, or the review of any movie that contained gambling in the story line (ex: Rainman). They couldn't access a web page with a news story about the Oklahoma City bombing, or news stories and historical reports about wars, or about nuclear testing. They couldn't access historical pages about the "Wild West" or sites discussing different eras in technological advancement that mention weapons as part of the developmental process, or news about how the peace talks are going in Israel. They couldn't look up information about Martin Luther King, Jr., Rosa Parks or anything else about the American civil rights movement. They couldn't look up anything about the Holocaust.

As for the word "occult," again any news stories or historical references that contained this word would be unavailable if this word was selected for filtering. I did an internet search for that word and found something interesting. The word "occult" is often used in medical terms to refer to something that is "not manifest or detectable by clinical methods alone ; also : not present in macroscopic amounts ." There is a neurological condition called Occult Spinal Dysraphism, related to Spina Bifida which occurs in around 5% of the population and there is a website informing the public of this condition.

My point is that when we restrict access to knowledge in such an arbitrary way, it can seriously handicap us and our children because knowledge equals power and wisdom. I can just imagine those kids looking things up on the internet and having a completely distorted, small view of what's out there. I encourage parents to get on the internet with their kids. Show interest in what their kids are interested in, discuss difficult subjects with them in a calm, factual way. Unfortunately, many people do not believe that knowledge is desirable - instead they go for the "ignorance is bliss" philosophy. If other people prefer not to avail themselves and their children of this wonderful resource called the internet, they have every right to use GuardDog, and they should have the right. I, however, find that the internet is a fountain of learning and that the more I drink from this fountain, the more wonderful my life becomes. From what I have seen, ignorance leads to confusion, unhappiness, and paranoia.

See for yourself. The url for McAfee's GuardDog is: http://store.mcafee.com/product.asp?ProductID=25&CategoryID=12#

~Gillie

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