James Henderson Brassfield
1820
Surrey Co.
, NC
Melissa Graves
March 2, 1825
Ohio
James Houston Brassfield
William Riley Brassfield
Perry H. Brassfield
Aaron Brassfield
Jesse B. Brassfield
1755
Surrey Co., NC
Mary F. Revis
1789
France
John Brassfield
1735
Wake Co., NC
Sarah
John Edward Brassfield
1693 Yorkshire, England
Elizabeth
Jesse B. Brassfield
and Mary Revis
Marriage: 11 Feb 1804 in Wake Co., North Carolina

Children:  
Jonathan BRASSFIELD
Abigail BRASSFIELD
Elizabeth BRASSFIELD
Michael Henry BRASSFIELD
Nancy BRASSFIELD
William Huston BRASSFIELD
Andrew H. BRASSFIELD
James Henderson BRASSFIELD
Caroline F. BRASSFIELD
John Brassfield
and Elizabeth
Children:  
Jesse B. BRASSFIELD
John BRASSFIELD
Elijah BRASSFIELD
William BRASSFIELD
Elizabeth BRASSFIELD
Susannah BRASSFIELD
Wiat BRASSFIELD
Edgar Brassfield
son of William Riley Brassfield
John Edward Brassfield
and Sarah
Children:  
Edward BRASSFIELD
John BRASSFIELD
Leonard BRASSFIELD
Brassfield Family Tree
(we are related to James & Melissa Brassfield's sons only)
(I feel like if the information is there I should record it)
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From Michael Brasfield
Chief Of Police
Ft. Lauderdale, FL

According to the Family Tree software relationship calculator, Aaron Brassfield and I are related, but very slightly - he would have been my "half 4th cousin, 4 times removed".  As the common wisdom about the Brasfield~Brassfield line goes, the 3 brothers from England formed the current 3 branches - Aaron and his ancestors were from (one), my line from one of the others.

According to the 1959 work "Brasfield~Brassfield Genealogies" by  A.C. & E.N. McAllister (720 pages) that is the main source for most family genealogy, James Henderson Brassfield is first mentioned on page 345 in the list of 9 living children (at time of father's death) of Jesse Brasfield and Mary F. Reavis (probably Mary Pritchard Reavis).

James Henderson Brassfield's family is listed on page 362, and states that his wife's name was not known, and that there were 7 known children.  It also states that James Henderson Brassfield died when his son, William Riley Brassfield was small.

The book states that the children were:

James Huston (married Jane Crumb and ??),
William Riley (married Margaret Ellen Thompson),
Perry H.( shown in 1870 Daviess County, Indiana Census living in household of Francis M. Graves), Elizabeth, Nancy Ann, Mary, and Lucinda.

No mention of Aaron or of any other marriages.  That is not too much of a surprise, as there are many missing or inaccurate items in the book, although over all it is a good reference.

The sources cited for the information are as follows:
George Scoles of Lake Forest, Illinois and Costa Rica
Charles U. Gordon of Chicago
Edgar Brassfield of Linton, Indiana
Martha J. Brassfield Peterson (Mrs. Daniel George) of Pasadena, California
Census 1870 - Daviess County, Indiana

The book lists at least 5 Aaron Brasfield/Brassfield individuals, none of them with James Henderson Brassfield:

Aaron Bannister     (1875-1943)          Son of John Francis Marion Brasfield & Elizabeth Johnson / born in Missouri
Aaron Charles        (1857-1928)          Son of Ansel Deverts Brasfield & Elizabeth Armon Brasfield / born in Iowa
Aaron Franklin       (1848-1923)           Son of Abner Brasfield & Lucinda Gee / born in Arkansas
Aaron Riley           (1849-aft 1931)       Son of Othnal Minter Brasfield & Matilda White / unknown where born
Aaron Thomas       (1827-1864)           Son of James Brasfield and Mary S. unknown / unknown where born

Sorry, nothing else to go on.  Your information is the only time I have come across "your" Aaron, or any reference to the mother, Melissa Graves.

Mike Brasfield
www.brasfield.net
Cora Brassfield Elliot
Daughter of
William Riley & Meg Brassfield