We love all sorts of sex: swinging, internet chat (IRC, AIM or Y!), webcam chat, voyeurism, skinnydipping, outdoor sex, sexy photography and exhibitionism. Watching and being watched by another couple is a big turn on for us BOTH. We have no interest in entertaining solo singles for this in person, so please don't ask!
We met for the first time on December 27, 1998. To most of you that means we were in the same place at the same time. Well, welcome to the 21st Century. We met in a cybersex video chat conference room on the internet. Yes, we are two of those weirdoes. We spent a LONG time just being friends. We shared our thoughts and dreams and one of us (or both of us) avoided the obvious and wouldn't say YES to meeting in person. On June 9, 2001 at the restored Revolutionary War Village at Waterloo New Jersey we finally met. It was kismet and we have been inseparable ever since. We were married in May 2002.
Hoople: Straight, 6 feet, 235 pounds, 7 inch and circumsized;
An apology of sorts --- We're sorry if some parts of this site seems a bit harsh. We've been 'on the scene' for a while and have had to answer TOO MANY inquiries from a LOT of people. After much communications they discover that we weren't the persons they were seeking.
Fun times 'out on the town' (dinner, drinks, sexy play and more) with other like minded couples ONLY! Solo single guys PLEASE do NOT contact us for 3somes as we will only turn you away. When we swing we prefer that the woman is bisexual as hotdi and I both love the play that results of it. When required hotdi can be straight for ladies that find bisexual action unpleasant. Some of our best swinging experiences have been as a sixsome (3 couples together - MMM/FFF) at a swing club/party with friends. We enjoy some lighter kinks too like: sexy photography (non-close-ups), sex in the great outdoors and nights out where the 'action' is in view, loving and playful (not x rated) at local eateries.
We want to try at some point in the future hotel room exhibitionism. Pee play and or pee voyeurism is a strong interest of ours we might like to include our trusted swinging friends in on. We want to try 'Same room' (or blanket outdoors) sex again with other couples that doesn't necessarily end up in swinging play. hotdi wants to try to do this again at our local nude beach this fall. We tried it once in Vermont at the nude beach there and it was hot!
Webcamming: CU-SeeMe and IRC is where we met! Lately we've been hanging out in various jmeeting.com video chat rooms. In Jmeeting we hang out in the MarriedAndFlirting and/or OutlawRadio 'R' rated room. In PalTalk we used to go into the 'Group' called Adultry Bar On The Bay Open 24 Hours or Perv to Please Meeting House. Web Browser Cam Occasionally while chatting on the internet we have our webcam on for all to see! This one doesn't require a direct connection to you, allowing upload of the image to a web site of your choice.
Newsgroups: We take many nude pictures of ourselves and then post them to the alt.binaries.pictures.personal.moderated newsgroup and a few other places.
Skinny dipping aka Nude Swimming: We love the inland nude swimming holes and the shade they provide, both for health and sexy fun.
Adult Book Stores: We have explored a few in upstate New York and some locally in southern New Jersey. We have a listing of New Jersey and a new one for the Philly area ABS's. In one hotdi's first experienced a "Buddy Pane" that allowed the person in the next booth to see into ours but not allowing for touch. Some booths have "Glory holes" or "buddy doors" or buddy booths. Other play that can happen is leaving one's booth door unlocked and waiting for a playmate to arrive. Most guys hope this is on the other side of the hole, but reality is most are male. Be sure to read the Glory Hole FAQ. Hoople moderates in moviethonp0rnobility, NJ_DE_PHILLY_COUPLES_ONLY, NJ_DE_PHILLY_NO_STRINGS_FUN and owns GeminiAdultBookStore Yahoo! groups and we regularly paticipate in many others. A first pass on a MovieThon Adult Books Store (Union NJ) Frequently Asked Questions.
Strip Clubs: We have gone together to several in New Jersey, Massachusetts and Canada. Right off we let the dancers know that hotdi is kewl with them paying attention to us, to the point that hotdi does all the tipping and she gets touches and naughty little words whispered to her by them. In Canada there are some unusual methods of tipping: one lays on their back onstage with the tip folded in your mouth. The dancer extracts the tip with her body (not her hands) from you. Hoople prior to meeting hotdi had gone to some in New York State, NYC and in quite a few in Pensylvania. Another good website for these clubs is TUSCL, The Ultimate Strip Club List. It had been free but now is pay, sorta. If you provide a club review they let you in for 30 days.
Amtrak: We try to get at least one Blow Job in per trip. Yes, other people are in the same car nearby, sometimes only two seats away! Here's di just after the BJ in her famouse Amtrak phonebooth flash.
Outdoor play: Sex, light play and photo shoots in the great outdoors in remote areas of local parks. Another Yahoo group also covers this subject.
Flashing: A lot of truckers and railroad freight train crews on the NJ have probably seen hotdi flash. Here's a short story with pictures about a flash at CVS. Bar fun: Lately we've been spending Saturday nights at a local mid level eatery (chain) playing trivia while chatting with each other (I know, an odd thing for a married couple to do!) and occasionally groping hotdi in a PG-13 rated manner.
Swinging: Like you didn't know by now? LOL!!! We have this site and an ad on http://www.swinglifestyle.com/ as hooplenhotdi. We'll be posting more of our favorite swinging kinks like this one of Hoople's (two women sucking him).
swinger 'orientation' meetings: We have on occasion done "G" rated meetings with couples about to explore swinging when they need questions answered by experienced 'real' people.
Couple - We define a couple as one male and one female person that are either married (to each other) or in a long term committed relationship (with each other). We are not interested in anyone who has one partner they live with and another that they play with (fuck buddies), especially not any dates!
First meeting is G rated - We meet in a public place as a FOURSOME only. If you and your mate can't make the meeting, please have the presence of mind to cancel or reschedule ahead of time. If you show up ALONE the entire conversation will consist of us saying "goodbye" to you. We do this to eliminate solo single guys scamming a couples meeting and then trying to turn the meeting into a threesome. We don't care what the excuse is about your mate not being available, if you show up without rescheduling you're off our list of potential play partners.
Soft swing - Also known as soft swap. We feel that it's important for all of us to have the same definition, to avoid any confusion or dissapointment. Our definition is: full oral sex (to the point of climax), oral/digital penitration of the vagina and bodily touching. Yes, hotdi does swallow! This is WITHOUT vaginal penetration of a male penis in a woman whom is not his partner.
Full swing - Also known as full swap. Our definition is: all of Soft Swing WITH vaginal penetration of a male penis in a woman whom is not his partner.
Open swinging - We define this as having sex with another couple with all present in the same room. We will ONLY do open swing.
Closed swinging or key club swing - This is where wives/motel room keys are swapped and the resulting M/F couples head away from their respective mates to different rooms. We will NOT do this!
Swinging separately - We will NOT do this. Take us as a couple, together, or not at all.
No Solo Singles! - We realize some couples like to give solo single males/females the privilege of swinging with them, but we don't, it's just our preference, OK? Also SOLO single guys have, in our experience, quite often pushed our limits and/or broken rules. We've also had too many responses from solo single guys 'posing' as a 'couple' too, hoping to 'hook up' with us for a threesome. We dont care how big, that you promise to follow all rules, that you're a great a lover or any other what you feel is a compelling reason for us to change our stance; with hotdi being very bisexual and Hoople being a 'breast man' solo single guys are several bits of 'equipment' deficient for what we require!!!
NO Reluctant partners - We will NOT swing with a couple when it's obvious that one of the people is a 'ticket' to get into couples events or meet with us. A 'ticket' - a person brought along to fill out the 'couple' requirement of a couples only event or meeting. Many times the 'ticket' never knows this as the person bringing the them somehow 'forgot' to mention that they're going to a swinging event/meeting. BOTH partners MUST be equally interested or at least open to trying it on a tempoary basis. We are not interested in 'helping' you win over a totally reluctant partner that has stated ABSOLUTELY NO to any form of swinging. We've developed a knack of sensing these scenarios up front pretty well and we WILL ASK if we're suspicious. If discovering any of this 'hidden agenda' we will then leave before anyone gets even close heading to the place where we might get naked!
To most that have read fully the above this section may seems redundant, but there are some solo single guys that somehow feel that they still have a chance of sorts as they feel they still 'fit' our requiremnts.
Threesomes - NO!
Gang Bangs - NO!
Drugs - NO!
BDSM - nope, wrong couple!
Heavy smokers - NO!
Heavy Drinkers - NO! as it's kinda difficult to get a hardon when your trashed! We are social drinkers but do socialize with non-drinkers as well.
No Transvestites, Cross Dressers or Transsexuals - Sorry, you're just not our thing!
Links: Here's a few that didn't seem to fit anywhere else, although we admit the above paragraphs are packed with them!
Yahoo Groups Many Yahoo! sex related groups exist, unfortunately many are not included in their index. Resources such as Adult Group Finder and GroupOS and Adult eGroups Café all of which are free, bridge this gap nicely. Avoid any pay 'group finder' services as they are just not worth it. Once you find a few Y! Groups to your liking asking in these groups will yield help from others with like interests. A list of our places and Y! Groups that we follow is here.
We just started a jokes page too.
Using Yahoo! for your sexy mails and wish you could use the same program as the rest of your e-mail??? We found a great program for this called YahooPOPs! that works pretty good.
Swinging Information: More information on swinging can be found on our Frequently Asked Questions and our Reading Room page.
JMeeting - Hooplenhotdi
Yahoo! IM - hooplenhotdi
AIM - HoopleNY
PalTalk - HoopleNDi
Last updated Sunday, March 21, 2004