Hello everyone I'm Hayden,
I am a 36 year old FTM. I came out as TG about 4 years ago. I have always known that I wasn't like most butch lesbians, but just never knew the words to describe who I was. I am finally starting to feel more comfortable with myself. Everyday I get a little more comfortable. I came out to my baby sister and her gf about 5 years ago. They told me that seeing me as a guy was going to take some getting used to, which I expected that it would. I am ready to live my life the way I have always wanted and be whom I have always wanted to be. I am married to a wonderful femme named Violynt. She has helped me in my journey to becoming who I really am. She has never tried to persuade me one way or the other on anything that I have done. She just stands by me so I can realize my own potential and she has helped me put into words what I have felt all my life. A better way to put it is, she helped me find the words to describe what I always knew. I've always known that I was born in the wrong body. I finally got to start T on Oct. 4th and plan on having top surgery sometime in the next couple years. We are looking for a good place to move so I will have other Trans people to talk to and somewhere that we can open up her coffee shop. We have been thinking about several places but have yet to settle on any place in particular. We've thought about maybe California or New York. Not sure where we will end up.
A little more about myself, I write poetry. I dont think most of it is that good, but its mine. I have been trying to write a short story for about 4 years now and just cant keep it going. However, my wonderful wife is a great writer. She writes short erotica stories. I think they are really good and so does almost everyone else that reads them, but she doesnt think so. She is being published in Hot Lesbian Erotica that comes out this month, May. She is the writer ViolyntFemme. Check it out. Well that is about all I can think of to say right now, so if you want to know anything else about me, or us, just email me. Thanks for looking and please sign my guestbook.
Hayden |
