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| Asking a boy/man out on a date depends, quite a lot, on how old you are and how old the boy is. If you are 12, or under, I suggest that you always have plenty of candy and playstation disks with you when you're around the boy. That is a great start and you may find that you won't have to ask him for a date because he will be hanging around all the time. But, no matter how old you are, the best, the all time easiest ways, to get a boy/man to go out with you are as follows. First, through casual conversation, find out some things he likes to do. For instance, fishing (hey, ya gotta start somewhere) or skiing (snow or water) or car shows, computers, whatever. Anyway, some activity that he knows a lot about or is interested in. Then, in your own words and your own style, you say, "Hey, I wanna do that but I don't know how. Will you go with me and show me how? I wanna new computer but I don't know what to buy... could you sit down with me sometime and give me some hints... maybe we could grab some dinner and talk about it." Use your imagination. There you go. If he wants to go out with you he will agree right away. You see, you haven't actually asked him to go out with you so if he says no then nobody is embarrassed - you just say,"Oh, well." Another good one is, if you're talking and you find out he's going somewhere, just say, casually, "Hey, I wanna go too." In other words, create a date out of nothing. Try, "I wanna go to (blah, blah) but I don't wanna go by myself. Ya wanna go with me?" Or - "My friends are going to ............ but they all have dates. Would you go with me?" Or - Simply and casually, "Hey, wanna go to ............ with me Friday night?" Keep in mind that if you ask a guy out, don't ask them to do something that will cost them money, at least not on the first date. They may really want to go out with you but can't afford what you suggest and have to say no. If they enjoy being with you the first time they will ask you out the next time and will choose an activity they can afford. When I was in the 10th grade, there was a girl named Ann in my school. I didn't know Ann personally but I was head over heels in love with her from afar. I was much too embarrassed to even try to meet her. I though my heart would break every time I saw her. 15 years later, I was performing in a night club in Cocoa Beach, Florida. On a break, I was walking through the club when I heard someone say, "John?" I looked around and there, after all these years, was Ann and some guy sitting at a table. Well, I sat down with them, we talked for a while, and when the guy, her husband, went to the rest room, Ann told me that she had had a terrible crush on me when we were in school but was too embarrassed to try to meet me. We both had a big laugh but, from the look on her face and, I'm sure on mine, neither of us thought it was very funny. Don't let that happen to you. Remember, guys wanna date just like you. In all probability, he's sitting there wondering if he should ask Uncle John how to ask a girl for a date.....haha. Incidentally, if you go out with some guy and have a boring time, it ain't gonna change. That's a fact. Don't go out with him again just to have someone to go out with. You will find yourself stuck in a boring relationship that may be hard to get out of. Good luck and let me know how it works out UncleJohn@unclejohn.com visit - www.awfullyfunny.com |
| The following suggestions make it easy to ask a boy, or man, out on a date without setting yourself up for that dreaded rejection. |
| (Before proceeding, make sure that both you, and the boy, are available for dating - that is, not involved with someone else) |