Many people today have a problem with self-esteem. Some
people have too much, but most have to little. Just like
everything else in life, we're expected to have it, but
noone tells us how to get it.
Well, that all ends right here.
Think of self-esteem as a cake. It is made up of certain ingredients.. leave out one or more of the ingredients and your cake is ruined. Self-esteem also has ingredients.
This kit comes equipped with all the ingredients necessary for a healthy self-esteem. BUT.. it's up to YOU to use them wisely!
Each piece is of equal importance,
so are listed in no
particular order.
First, we have our yes and no coins.
These coins give you the right to say yes or no when YOU want to.
Next, we have our magnifying glass.
This gives you the right to find out all the information about a situation before making a decision.
Then, we have our wisdom box.
This box gives you a place to put all the information you receive in a given situation. It gives you the ability to take everything in BEFORE making a decision.
Next comes the sword of courage.
This gives you the ability to go forward keeping your fears in check.
Then, we have a wishing well.
This gives you the right to wish and dream about anything you want.
Now we come to the key to new possibilities.
This is a reminder that at any given time there are always new possibilities.
Next, we have a sucker (lollipop).
This will give you the ability to tolerate ("suck up") pain.
And finally, we have our heart.
This gives you the ability to love others AND yourself!
I would like to make clear that I don't feel after reading
this page that you will have a healthy self-esteem
instantly.
But I do think that you might better understand what
self-esteem is and how important it is. Note: (Many people find that therapy of some sort is very helpful and sometimes a life saving venture. I am not a licensed therapist, so I cannot offer counseling.)
Surround
yourself with loving and supportive people. The last thing
you need is someone tearing you down.
Don't be afraid to
find out AND do what makes YOU happy. If you spend all of
your time trying to please everyone else, you may never
find the happiness you deserve in life.
It's time to start taking care of you! Love yourself first
and foremost because you are the most important person in
your life! Never forget that you are special and that you
are worthy.. worthy of love, respect and hapiness!
God makes only beautiful things.. and yes, God made You!!
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