| Mackenzie's Dating Advice! I am not a therapist, a psychologist or a doctor in anything, but I have been on a million dates (estimated)! |
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| Dear Mackenzie, is it wrong to write someone a letter as away of ending our relationship? thanks for the help- love the site- Mindy, Ohio Dear Mindy, No.It is sometimes better for all involved. At least way there is no argument. Just remember- a letter is proof, so watch what you write as 2 possible things may happen: 1) he may use it against you if you try to re-unite and 2)he may show all his friends. Be careful as he could always claim he never got a letter. But at the same time you could also claim to have given him one. Good luck and Send me a copy (I'm nosy!) Hope this helps- Mackenzie |
| Dear Mackenzie, I just got dumped. What can I do to feel better? Lorraine,Ontario Dear Lorraine, look at the bright side- you just opened yourself up for more fun with your friends and the men who are lucky enough who have the option of entertaining you! Morn for a day and then back on that horse you must go! If it was a rough breakup I hang with my friends. If I miss him, I find nothing gets me over someone like a new crush! Good luck and maybe I'll see ya out around town! Mackenzie |
| Dear Mackenzie, What do you and your friends do for fun? Brent, Michigan Dear Brent, In the summer we Sea Doo!!! All damn day! (when were not working). Even if it's raining. We also try to see some movies and we hit downtown for food and fun. We love the Casino too! And we Dance, Dance, Dance at any chance! Thanks for asking- Mackenzie |
| Dear Mackenzie, Big Problem! I work nights at a bar and there are always these guys that like me, that I'm attracted to, but I hesitate to tell them that as they are good customers. When they as me out- what should I say? Hurry! Urgent, Atlanta Dear Urgent, I have the best solution! I used it all the time when I used to bartend and waitress! Tell the guy that you wish you could go out with him, but that your friend likes him- and there is no way you could hurt her like that! When he asks which friend, just tell him that your sworn to secrecy! After all- no one likes a big mouth! Hope that works- let me know- Mackenzie |
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| Dear Mackenzie, I have been dating two guys at the same time. I am not exclusive with either but, I have finally decided to end it with one of them.The problem is I can't seem to get ahold of him lately to end it. What should I do? Fiona,Ont. Dear Fiona, Thanks for writing! In my experience, if a guy doesn't want to be found, he won't be. Either he is avoiding you because he has a feeling you want to end your relationship, or he wants to end it with you and is doing so by avoiding you.If your not boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged or married. Forget about it. If he wants to find you, he will. And enjoy the other guy. Thanks for writing- Mackenzie |
| Last updated: April 21, 2003 |
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| Mackenzie, Have been friends with this guy for a few months. I like him a lot, but as more then just a friend. I have heard(from friends) that he feels the same way about me. What should I do now? Jen- Cali. Dear California, You basically have three options: 1)wait to see if he makes a move, 2) make a move on him or 3)do nothing and see if your feelings last. I would keep the following in mind: 1) if your feelings arn't returned from him, is your friendship ruined? 2) Are the friends who told you he likes you trustworthy? and 3) I have heard it said that men in love will move mountains for the one they love, so following this theory, wouldn't he make a move on you if he wanted you bad enough? Or you could just try light flirting and see what happens. Mackenzie |