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21. Avoid discussing issues that you fear will upset your partner.
22. Are unwilling to break off a bad relationship because you don't want
to hurt your partner.
23. Secretly wish that your partner would die, move away, find someone
else, or offer to leave the relationship.
24. Allow others to make most decisions.
25. Let someone else make all the decisions with no input or discussion
from you.
26. Allow others to talk you into a decision you don't like.
27. Make a decision to please others rather than yourself.
28. Choose a course of action because you don't want to hurt a
particular person's feelings.
29. Find it easier to "go along" with others decision rather than stand
your ground.
30. Behave as though you agree with others, even when you don't.
31. "Parrot" someone else's opinions or behaviors.
32. Keep quiet when you disagree with something. (depends on the
subject)
33. Allowing someone to think by your silence that you agree with them
even if you don't. 
34. Thinking that the subject is not worth an argument.
35. Act to "protect" others at your own expense.
36. Won't break up with a significant other strictly to avoid hurting
their feelings.
37. Avoid saying what you want or need to say because you don't want
to hurt someone.
38. Accept blame that is not yours to protect someone else.
39. Giving up things that are important to you to please others.
40. Give up hobbies or activities that aren't shared or approved of.
(or at least give them up for awhile to keep the peace).
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