Everyone has a life story, and here is mine. Born and raised in this small, but safe town. I was a good baby. Ok, I cried alot and was always getting into everything, geesh you people don't believe anything. Next, your gonna tell me the Miracle Mop doesn't work miracles. ( If you actually laughed at that, it is proof you know me too well.)
Anyways life was pretty good and typical for me. My wild years started a little early. My first day of kindergaden I got caught kissing the teachers son. Right, Like I knew he was the teachers son! He should have worn a name tag that said "Hi, Im the teachers son you kiss me you are going to get in trouble". Well I was actually a pretty popular little kid up until 2nd grade I had lots of friends and was a leader to lots of playground games. Kiss the boys then run was one of my favorites. I was enjoying my youth up to one moment.
I can still remember the day exactly. I was nine.I was supposed to go to a party with my friend Jeanna, but I got ill so she walked to the party alone. That night someone took her from me and my life hasn't been the same. Guilt and pain accompanied much of my next years. Survival guilt, I later learned was what it was called. I have finally come to terms with this, but it took many years and alot of mistakes to become whole again.
Since, the kidnapping took such a tole on me, my next years were not pretty. I built a shell around myself. I trusted no one.I truly thought everyone was out to destroy me and cause me pain. I would come home every day and just watch tv or color ( I used to color velvet pictures). I had no desire to be liked and I had no faith. I decided to blaim god for my best friends death. It wasn't until I was 12 that i found a new friend.
Derek, Oh my this is an intresting story indeed. Derek is half mexican half white. He is 5'9 dark raven hair very fit. He has lived here only part of his life. He grew up in Jamestown. I know that should explain a lot right there. Derek has a bad family life. His dad is very abusive, but since he is rich Derek's mom keeps him around. Derek has always been mommy's boy and was spoiled rotten. Money to compensate for an abusive father, it is actually quite a unfair exchange. Derek has always been a charismatic man. He can charm anyone with so much as a 5 min conversation. He has followers always, but his followers don't stay long. You can only take so much bull shit before you walk away from a frienship. Derek about 2 years ago decided to finally come out and admit what the world already knew, that he was gay.
Incepearble is the word I would use. Truely love him like a brother inspite of what he later did to me. Through him I met my first real boyfriend. (explained in the section about my ex's). Derek was a hard person to be friends with. He had a abusive child hood and was pretty emotinal inept. He never out right said he cared about me until we were friends for 6 yrs. He used me .He told lies about me, stole from me, hurt me , broke my trust countless times, yet I was in too much to denial to truly see what he was doing.
Oh,don't get me wrong the man has goods points as well. He could always make me laugh. Most of the time the reason I was laughing was cause he was telling me a story, but he would say it was the truth. I think I was partly laughing cause he truly believed I was so neive.
Here is an example of one of his stories... " Well Kim I was driving to Jamestown last week with Josh (he will be later discussed) and suddenly I got hit by a deer. The deer sent me carening off the road This cute sherrif stopped to help us. We ended up back in this small town and he paid for our hotel. The next day I called my Insurance company and they sent someone with a loner car (99 grandam,red 2 door, brand new)."
Blinks* looks at Derek* "Amazing cause we are riding in your car and it doesn't look like you even have a dent in it."
"Oh well, umm thats cause my insurance is so good it was fixed the same day. Umm ya thats why it is fixed so soon."
Do you see what I mean??? How can you not laugh at someone ignorance that you would believe such a improvable story. I don't know about you, but wouldn't you love to have his Insurance company :)
IF anything being friends with Derek gave was quite intresting. Here is another story only this one is not about how I know he is a compulsive liar. This story is just to prove the man was weird, and to maybe get you to laugh.
