Xxxx: hi. can I bother you?
MrSelfDevelopmnt: no bother
MrSelfDevelopmnt: hello
Xxxx: thanks MR...
MrSelfDevelopmnt: how are you
Xxxx: can I ask you how do you develop yourself?
Xxxx: (GREAT :-)
MrSelfDevelopmnt: good good
Xxxx: ???
Xxxx: explain how
MrSelfDevelopmnt: you develop the person you are on the inside
Xxxx: ok but HOW
MrSelfDevelopmnt: you need to focus less on trying to change things around
MrSelfDevelopmnt: and learn to accept more that which ultimately can not be changed
MrSelfDevelopmnt: only then can you really develop yourself
Xxxx: wowwwwwww!
Xxxx: I liked that!
Xxxx: how old are you?
MrSelfDevelopmnt: I am 35
MrSelfDevelopmnt: Tell me a bit about yourself
Xxxx: I do need to get better as a person
Xxxx: I am 21
Xxxx: from ny
MrSelfDevelopmnt: ok
MrSelfDevelopmnt: what do you mean when you say..you need to get bette as a person
Xxxx: I need to work on myself to be happy with what I have, not to complain and be more positive
MrSelfDevelopmnt: I see
MrSelfDevelopmnt: well..thanks for sharing
MrSelfDevelopmnt: so..why are you not happy
Xxxx: happy?
Xxxx: I wish I was!
MrSelfDevelopmnt: why not??
MrSelfDevelopmnt: give me a reason
MrSelfDevelopmnt: or.what are you complaining about
Xxxx: I am not happy with myself = I am not happy in life= I am deppressed very fast=unhappy..
MrSelfDevelopmnt: sorry to hear that
MrSelfDevelopmnt: but I always think there is a reason for why people feel the way they do
Xxxx: cuz I am very insecure
Xxxx: because in my home they are very critizicing and not assertive
MrSelfDevelopmnt: I see
Xxxx: am I right
MrSelfDevelopmnt: well.whatever people say or do...how much does that really have to do with you
MrSelfDevelopmnt: I mean...what do they know
MrSelfDevelopmnt: question is..do you think they are right when they criticize you
Xxxx: well, when my PARENTS are talking!
Xxxx: it does affect me..
MrSelfDevelopmnt: I bet it does
Xxxx: ...
MrSelfDevelopmnt: well..what do they say.?
Xxxx: mm..
Xxxx: like....why do you do things this way? why do you sleep so much? why do you wear black? why are you wearing so much makeup you dont need! dont waste money...ect
MrSelfDevelopmnt: well..you know, they only mean well
Xxxx: I know...........
MrSelfDevelopmnt: from their perspective.,,it might be strange that you wear black
MrSelfDevelopmnt: they have a hard time understanding
Xxxx: so they should say it positively!!!!!!!
MrSelfDevelopmnt: I know
MrSelfDevelopmnt: they should
MrSelfDevelopmnt: but who is perfect
Xxxx: no1 but they know it affects me!
MrSelfDevelopmnt: well...reemember what I said before
MrSelfDevelopmnt: you can not change them
MrSelfDevelopmnt: and do not even try
MrSelfDevelopmnt: learn to accpept them more and work on yourself
MrSelfDevelopmnt: most people are different from how we would want them or need them to be
MrSelfDevelopmnt: this you can not change..but you can change how you respond to that
MrSelfDevelopmnt: and instead of taking it personal..try to be more accepting and understanding of that
Xxxx: you are right
Xxxx: thanks
MrSelfDevelopmnt: anytime

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