Our entire conversation boiled down to one recurring theme. The age group that I am in right now, women seem to follow three patterns, one of which can almost include the other two.
The first is, Women are holding out for their fairy tale prince to come and sweep them off their feet. He is handsome, intelligent, rich, kind, noble, swift to action, romantic, loves everything, and is loved by everyone. The biggest problem, this type of guy is only found in the fairy tales. If this guy happened to exsist, how many women would truly say they could not be swept off their feet by him? Not very many, and they would be lying.
The second type is, the guy just to piss off mommy and daddy. This guy, unfortunately, is very real. Girls are driven to this type of guy for escaping the control of their prison-guard like parents. Most often than not, this guy will have more control over the girl than her parents ever did. She escaped from minimum security right into the arms of death-row.
The third type actually maskes the first two into a semi-coherent thought that can be passed off to the general public. This one is, "I'm out to just have fun". This idea completely disguises the first pattern comepletely, as no one is the wiser. And it makes an excuse for the second. The so called bad boy is not who she plans to settle down with. Now, there is a small percentage of girls that actually are out "just to have fun", but from what I have seen they are few and far between.
The question that might be going through your heads now is, "Well, where are you, nice guy?" The answer is, I am at home watching a movie or playing playstation, because dealing with chicks in these mindset is like talking to a brick wall. They have their minds made up, and won't be dissuaded by anyone. In the end, it will suck for them, because they will realize they can't live in a fantasy world, and by then, all the guys who will treat them with love and respect will be taken.
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