The Paradox
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							Don't ya guys love paradoxes...  I was browsing through the internet the other day and came across an incredible quote that seems to pertain to my life directly.      "Without a girlfriend there is no confience, without the confidence there is no girlfriend"                  this quote is found on Richard (Rick) 's website.      This paradox sucks of course, because its a never ending loop of not having one and can't have the other.      I think that the more that you try to show the other (girlfriend or confidence) the more easily it is seen through, and your whole purpose is defeated.  This also leads into something else that a former roommate of mine told me....  "Feast or Famine"....  since being on the famine end, if I were a country, the entire popiulation would have starved to death already.