What does love mean to you? If you are looking for love, would you recognize it if you found it? Can you tell the difference between love and infatuation? Between love and attraction? Between love and sexual desire? Between love and friendship? Between sex and intimacy? Between a good relationship and one that is only pleasurable?

Personally, I believe Love is a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction. When I say attraction I do not speak of sexual attraction. I'm refering to what truly attracts you to her. Intially most men are reeled in my the outer beauty. The flesh. I will grant us this, woman are beautiful everyone of them, each in their own way, starting with those precious eyes, or sweet luscious lips, those curves, seductiing breast and an ass that alwyas has you wondering how would that low rise thong really look on that ass. When I first saw candice, she had me in complete awe, that girl is fine. She was blessed by an angel but how can that be when she is a god herself, but when I fell in love with her those traits I saw in her at first, and even her fine ass features, seemed to amplify themselves, it seems to me that the one thing you love the most always seems to be the finest sight on earth, that is because true beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

In what manner love may be acquired
They say that the best way to acquire love is by a beautiful figure, excellence of character, extreme readiness of speech, great wealth, and the readiness with one grants that which is sought. A beautiful figure wins love with very little effort, especially when the lover sought is simple , for a simple lover thinks that there is nothing to look fir in ones beloved besides a beautiful figure and favce and a body well cared for. I don't blame the love of such people but neither do I approve of such love. That type of love is called lust. Lust is desire and love in the matter of sexual intercourse. This type of love fails quite often and hearts are broken. A wise woman seels a man that is of praiseworthy character,not one that annoints himself all over woman. I believe you should not seek for beauty so much as for excellece in character. Be careful , not to be takin in by the empty beauty of women , because women are clever and such a ready talker that after you begun to enjoy the gifts you get from her you will not find it easy to escape loving he. Remember this beauty will never truly please you if it lacks goodness. The excellence of character alone blesses the relationship and the man. A person of good character draws the love of another person of the same kind, for a well instructed lover, man or woman does not reject an ugly lover if the character within is beautiful. Character alone is worthy of the crown of love. In many occasions fluency of speech will incline to love the hearts oof those who do not love, for an elaborate line of speech on the part of a lover usually sets love's arrow aflying and creates a presumption in favor of the excellent character of the speaker. As the latina hip hop goddess put it, Money can't buy love. Wealth may attract love but that is love of money. This type of love is for fools for money and beauty only bring lust. Desire and passion are what make love worth feeling. So ladies and gentes find a lover of good character and the rest will follow, I promise thee. For beauty is in the eye of the beholder and true wealth is everlasting such as love.

How Love may be increased
In a relationship, love may be increased when lovers rarely see eachother. The greater the solaces, the greater the desire to feel the those solaces grow and so does the love. Under going great periods of time apart spices things up in a relationship cause a build up of emotions to grow and want to be released. Sometimes arguing in a relationship can be healthy, in addition when one lover shows anger in a relationship it causes a feeling of fear. The other lover is afraid of what might happen in the relationship and his partner feels this feeling and allows the relationship to grow. When jealousy occurs also known as the nurse of love love always increases. It allows the partner to show feelings that he may sometimes hide, the true extent to his love that he rarely shows but in a moment of jealousy allows his beloved to see. Dreams of your lover gives a rise to love that already exists and allows you to truly feel the love you never understood you had in your heart. Men here is a bit of advice... ALWAYS VALUE HER SOLACES, never take it for granted for on day she will doubt your love and have to prove your love. I speak from experience
Retaining Love
The man who wants to keep his love affair for a long time untroubled should above all things be careful not to let it be known to any outsider, because when a number of people get wind of of such an affair it ceases to develope naturally and may even lose what progress has already been made. A lover ought to appear to his beloved wise in every respect and restrained in his conduct, and should try to not do anything disagreeable that might annoy her. Every man is bound in the time of need to come to his beloved's aid, by stmpathizing with her in all her troubles and by acceding to all her reasonable desires. When inadvertently he do something improper, that offends her, he should straight way confess with sincerity his wrong doing and make right of it.

The Rules of Love
I. Marriage is no real excuse for not loving.
II. He who is not jealous cannot love.
III. No One can be bounded by a double love.
IV. It is well known that love is always increasing or decreasing
V. That which a lover takes against the will of his beloved has no relish.
VI. Boys do not love until they arrive at the age of maturity.
VII. When one lover dies, a widowhood of 2 yrs is required of the survivor
VIII. No one should be deprived of love without the very best of reasons
IX. No one can love unless he is impelled by the persusion of love.
X. Love is always a stranger in the home of avarice
XI. It is not proper to love any woman who one would be ashamed to seek to marry.
XII. A true lover does not desire to embrace in love anyone except his beloved. XIV. The easy attainment of love makes it of little value; difficulty of attainment makes it prized.
XV. Every lover regularly turns pale in the presence of his beloved.
XVI. When a lover suddenly catches sight of his beloved his heart palpitates.
XVII. A new love puts to flight an old one.
XVIII. Good character alone makes any man worthy of love.
XIX. If love diminishes , it quickly fails and rarely revives.
XX. A man in love is always apprehensive.
XXI. Real jealousy always increases the feeling of love.
XXII. Jealousy, and therefore love, are increased when one suspects his beloved.
XXIII. He whom the thought of love vexes eats and sleeps very little.
XIV. Every act of a lover ends in the thought of his beloved.
XXV. A true lover considers nothing good except what he thinks will please his beloved.
XVI. Love can deny nothing to love.
XVII. A lover can never have enough of the solaces of his beloved.
XVIII. A slight presumption causes a lover to suspect his lover
XIX. A man who is vexed by too much passion usually does not love.
XXX. A true lover is constantly and without intermission possessed by the thought of his beloved.
XXXI. Nothing forbids one woman being loved by two men or one man by two woman.