| ABOUT ME |
| Well here's alil more bout myself; Again my name is NAVITO, Im a mixture of this n that, Hispanic and some other ingredients but Im no mutt I'm pedegree all the way. I never knew my dad, so don't speak my cultural language much, but I love all cultures, I'm a guy who believes in moral values and honest principles. Im sort of old fashion and still an old romantic at heart. I grew up in a diffucult childhood with lots of neglect, abuse, poverty, pain, shame and ridicule.. However I don't blame either of my parents as they did the best they could with what little knowledge and experience they had raising children. I do feel that life has been good despite my circumstances and difficulties.. So I may have started off with a few strikes against me but I've come along way baby! I will not be a product of my past but rather a reason for my future... Yes I've made some mistakes in the past and sadly some folks refuse to forgive. Because for some people being sorry is not good enough, but I can kind of understand their pain and hurt, disappointment and sorrow, it's not easy to forgive and forget.. Sometimes we ask forgivness of others yet we ourselves have not shown real sorrow for what we did. We have not learned that it takes time to heal, time to forgive, time to change, time to understand. Many times we ask forgivness but we have not accepted responsibility for our mistakes, so we should do a double check on our motives and heart when we seek forgivness. Be real, be sincere, be changed. Don't be sorry just cuz you got caught? Be sorry cuz you hurt someone who didn't deserve it. And if you still cannot find forgivness then let go and let God.. Refuse to stay shackled to the spirit of unforgivness, bitterness, or revenge. move forward. Be a changed person for the better. What I'm trying to say is this, nobody's perfect, I had and still do have some faults and flaws, we all do. But I'm working on me and God is working on me.. I believe in the power of God and love to heal, to sooth and to comfort. I'm an optimist you see. I liked to observe things and people around me. I tend to be very politically and spiritually minded. my interest are many and varied, but to name a few. I like or rather enjoy the Outdoors, Bar-b-q's, Parks, Jogging, Picnics, Sunsets or Sunrises, Dancing, Fireside moments, Pillow fights, Spiritual moments, or just sitten around chatting with someone interesting, The martial arts, things to do with water ( swimming, boating, sking etc), I am very athletically inclined. I don't chew, smoke or drink, no drugs cuz Im on a natural high, but I won't condemn others who do.. Oh by the way did I also say that I'm an artist? I like to work with water colors and oils, and some drawing as well. Love art and litature, reading and writting, Im a people person, I love animals have 2 dogs and 2 cats. cats names are Sasha and Cuddles, dogs names are Nike and Nina, My favorite colors are maroon and hunter green, also like sky blue, Favorite movies hum.... Oh I really liked The Green Mile, To kill a Mockingbird, Dead Homies, Chasing freedom, The legend of crying Ryan, Love comes softly, The Passion of the Christ, Left behind, and Revelation.. Some books I like, Gone with the wind, Moments with the savior, war and peace. The rise and decline of the Roman empire, Shakespear, and of course the Bible. Kind of music I like, I love Salsa (Puerto Rican music), Jazz, R & B, Gospel. Soul, Some Rock, Country, and Romantic stuff. So ur wondering if I'm single? married? or just looking to play? Well to tell the truth I am single and kinda looking somewhat? Why a question mark after the looking u say? Well cuz u see I been hurt before, Or maybe I should say I've hurt someone before and don't want to do that again! and I'm really not sure I'm readdy for more. You see I still kind of have this place in my heart for a very special young lady. You see I was involved in a relationship and in love with a very special young lady. But I didn't act like it so she left me, yeah I TOOK THINGS FOR GRANTED, I had some personal issues that I'm ashamed of and don't care to mention here. ..The sad part is I finally changed but maybe a little to late? Sadly she didn't stick around long enough for me to realize I needed serious change in my life. So I to am tired of the games and drama, of hurting and being hurt. But I don't blame her, Don't hold a grudge, Matter a fact I'll accept the blame for her leaving. I just hope that theres room for hope and forgivenesss, At the least I hope I've learned and changed for the better. So what am I looking for you say? Well for one looks aren't everything but matters of the heart do matter. I like virtue, class, intelligence, character, honesty, maturity, Sincerity. Wow seems like alot to ask? But then again your getting the best that I have to offer, I'm a faithful one woman kind of man, I'll respect, cherish and honor, support and care, love and listen. So you see I'm looking for love for a life time. But by the same token, I'm very flexable, I dont believe in imposing my desires, demands or beliefs upon others. Although I would prefer a more serious and sincere type of relationship I'm open to a casual one as well. So if your looking for someome to just enjoy some time with, to share some physical companionship with I can deal with that. If ur looking to go from one guy to the next and back in forth without any serious committment . I can deal with that to as long as we're upfront about it. I certainly wouldn't want or expect anyone to have to put their future plans or goals on hold just for the sake of our relationship. Just don't expect me to play cat n mouse with you, cuz I don't play that. I got to much going on for myself to have to chase anyone. I ain't going to fake nuthen, no drama here. If I likes you I'll let u know it right up front! if not you'll know it too. So with that in mind let me say I gots a great financial future ahead of myself. And If u want to join me along this journey then welcome into my world! IN CLOSING: A personal reflection on my present thoughts and situation.. Its been a very difficult time for me the last few years, very despairing and painful. So many regrets, so many doubts and difficlties. And at times it seemed like the whole world was against me. Like all was falling apart. Like no matter how much I changed for the good, nor how much I prayed, nor how hard I tried, it seemed like no one understood or cared. My point is this Life and circumstances can be so deceptive. LIFE IS TO GOOD TO WASTE WITH SORROW AND HEARTACHE. Even though sometimes I feel so all alone, so weary and tired, so discouraged. Yes I know what that feels like. But despite it all and through it all. I still find strength and solice, comfort and encouragement. In knowing my hope is not dead nor my future damned.. But truthfully I must admit like the Apostle Paul that I have felt at times like " if I have hope only in this world, I am of all men most miserable" so you see my hope is in God and my future is secure in him. But the good news is that God doesn't only want to be the God for your tomorror. He is here for you today for ur present situation as well as your future circumstances. . Yes I've no one to blame but myself for my past mistakes and offenses.. I got myself into that with my foolish behavior, and indeed I've learned a valuable lesson never take for granted the love of God, the gifts of God, THE TENDER MERCIES OF GOD. Food for thought: Don't expect things to be handed you on a silver platter, work for them. Presently I'm considering finishing my work towards my accounting or financial degree. I love the investment field of the financial markets. Yeah you could say I love big bucks and the finer things in life, but I can do without them if need be also. I been on both sides of the fence, the well off and not so well off. But more than that I have Jesus! And when I have him I've got it all. So it is my desire that you to will find the hope and encouragement that I found in Jesus Christ. That you to will know his loving comfort, his warm companionship, his awesome healing, and his divine plans for you and your life. He is the answer for ur situation.. In his service always... |
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