Playing Favorites, List 1

 

Here are my favorites: 

Playing Favorites is a powerfully eye-opening self-exploratory exercise. "Playing" it was thought-provoking and clarifying.

"Getting to Know You, Getting to Know All About You..."
~ Rodger & Hammerstein from The King and I

Perhaps you'll come up with your favorites.The person you'll get to know might surprise you.

"Enjoy every moment, every breath 
of those whose lives are intertwined with yours,
for you or they may not be here tomorrow."

Favorite gifts in life: 
*  hugs & kisses
*  my kith, kin & dog-kids
*  my spirituality
*  books, learning, and education  
*  honeymoons, family trips & weekends away

Favorite kin:   
*  DH (aka Dear Husband, Dear Heart)
*  Joan, Sandy & Dean (siblings)
*  Wayne, Sue, Samara, Jonathan, Alana S (Family)
*  Aunty Chick & Uncle Ted
*  Grandmother Satsuma, Grandfather I
*  Dog-kids: Happy & Laki (aka Hau`oli & Laki); O & Freddy B
*  Hawai`i - California `Ohana: 2001

Favorite kith:   
*  Jillary & Ron
*  Poonz & K
*  Cia & Doni
*  Wayne & Lynn
* 
Grad school buds: Cliff, Mike, Ann & Ed

Favorite spiritual mentors: 
*  Mohandas Gandhi
*  Albert Einstein
*  Albert Schweitzer
*  Mary Kawena Pukui
*  The Peace Pilgrim

Favorite spiritual aspirations:   
*  Unconditional love
*  Oneness
*  Thy Will, Not Mine
*  Magnanimity
*  Compassion

Favorite living inspirations: 
*  Oprah Winfrey
*  Colin Powell
*  Dean Kamen, founder of DEKA
*  Jimmy Carter
*  Firemen, Police Officers, Rescue Workers and passengers who thwarted the terrorists, NYC, September, 11, 2001

Favorite kinds of people:   
*  down-to-earth, unpretentious, real
*  creative, imaginative, adventuresome
*  responsible, high integrity, salt-of-the-earth
*  fun-loving, non-demanding, easygoing
*  positive-thinking, sensitive, compassionate

Favorite self-affirmations:   
*  (I am) Happy, Healthy, One with God
*  I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.
*  Thy Will, not mine (song)

*  Be still, and know that I am God. (poem)
*  The Lord's Prayer
* 
Live, Laugh, Love (healing humor)
*  Life is short.  Make it sweet.
*  All is well.
*  Above all else, do no harm.
*  Eat, drink and be merry.

Favorite mottos:   
*  Do Right
*  In God We Trust
*  Be Prepared
*  Go for Broke! (site)

*  Light, Life, Love

Favorite endearments:  
*  DH (Dear Husband; Dear Heart)
*  Honey Bunny
*  Pumpkin Pie
*  Sweet Pea
*  My Little Rosebud

"I will bring to you love, never sadness, 
Laughter and joy, never tears. 
I will bring to you moments of gladness 
And happiness through the years."

Favorite colors: 
*  royal purple
*  robin's egg blue & sky blue
* 
fuzzy wuzzy brown
* 
cranberry*  
*  forest green

Favorite stores:
*  Amazon.com
*  Barnes & Noble
*  Borders
*  half.com
*  Edelweiss Bookstore

Favorite simple pleasures:   
*  baths by candlelight and soft classical / Hawaiian music
*  hugs, cuddles, snuggles, foot massages
*  just hanging out with DH and the dog-kids
*  soft, baggy clothes
*  teddy bears

Favorite outdoor activities: 
*  taking an evening or morning stroll
*  hiking
*  biking
*  gardening
*  stargazing

Favorite indoor activities:
*  reading
*  writing
*  listening to classical or Hawaiian music
*  ballroom dancing
*  surfing the Net

Favorite games:  
*  Etymologic!
*  Literati
*  Scrabble
*  Boggle
*  Cranium


"May your life be filled with joy,
may your world be filled with love."

Favorite sights:  
*  DH's smile and his kind, crinkly eyes
*  O's adorable puppy face
*  long view down the lake to the dam
*  flower gardens under blue skies 
*  sunrises, sunsets, silver mornings

Favorite scents: 
*  DH
*  sheets & towels washed in Ivory soap, then sun-dried
*  freshly baked bread
*  plumeria
*  new books

Favorite sounds:  
*  DH, playing his guitar
*  happy, contented dog sighs
*  the quiet of snow falling 
*  gently lapping waves
*  DH's hearty laugh

Favorite tastes: 
*  DH's scrumptious kisses
*  DH's homemade spaghetti sauce
*  char siu
*  Hawaiian `alaea (red sea salt)
*  Valrhona bittersweet chocolate

Favorite kinesthetics: 
*  inviting warmth of our bed
*  comfortable shoes
*  silky, cool satin; soft, warm flannel; pure cotton
*  stiffly starched, smoothly ironed pillowcases
*  clean dog fur


"I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life. 
And God said "No." 
He said I gave you life, that you may enjoy all things."

Favorite clothes: 
*  Cloud Nine pajamas
*  black cashmere turtle neck sweater
*  white Oxford shirt & cranberry travel vest
*  the indispensable "little black dress"
*  soft, baggy purple sweatshirt

Favorite shoes: 
*  Nike high-top sneakers
*  no shoes (bare feet or socks only)
*  black suede shoes
*  sandals
*  Cloud Nine booties

Favorite jewelry: 
*  wedding ring from DH, 1974
*  plumeria earrings from DH, 2002
*  Claddagh ring from furkids (& DH) for Mother's Day, 1989
*  jade turtle (family `aumakua) pendant from Keala & Maleka `Ōhi`a, 7/2001, family reunion, Las Vegas, NV
*  Ming's phoenix gold ring from my mother-in-law,  1980's

Favorite lei: 
*  maile
*  plumeria
*  Ni`ihau shell lei from my kith, Jillary
*  haku with ferns and flowers
*  ti & kukui leaves

Favorite catalogs:   
*  TravelSmith
*  L.L. Bean
*  Plow & Hearth
*  Jackson & Perkins
*  Harry and David

"Nothing is worth more than this day." 
~Goethe

Favorite animals:  
*  dogs 
*  dolphins
*  birds
*  turtles
*  rabbits
  - Oolong the Rabbit
  - Oolong's human writes in English

In the past, my life has been blessed by and shared with six dogs, a cat, a goat, chickens, parakeets, a canary, rescued wild birds, fishes, a turtle, pigs, piglets, cows, calves, a bull, a kinkajou, white lab rats, a rabbit, and a lamb -- a real bah, bah black sheep.

Favorite dogs:   
*  Happy & Lucky; O & Freddy B (our dog-kids, past and present)
*  Masa (Aunty Chick's & Uncle Ted's)
*  Ipo, BigDog & Hana (Joan's, Mitch's and Alana K's dogs)
*  Otis, Buster & Oscar (Big Bear neighbors' dogs)
*  Lassie &  Murray (aka Maui) on TV show, Mad About You
*   Yuki, Honey, Shiro, Dixie, Wesak (dogs of our childhoods)

Favorite birds:   
*  bluebirds
*  sparrows
*  robins
*  chickadees
*  `i`iwi

 

"Live each day as if this were your last;
garden as if you will live forever."

Favorite flowers:  
*  wisteria
*  pink rosebuds
*  plumeria
*  freesia
*  sweetpea


Favorite trees:   
*  pine:  firs, cedars, spruces
*  Japanese red maple
*  guava
*  bamboo
*  crape myrtle

Favorite plants: 
*  ferns
*  bleeding hearts
*  maile
*  rosemary
*  willows

" A recent study on heart disease showed that when you eliminate age as a variable, the number one predictor of heart disease is not diet or exercise, and has nothing to do with smoking or any of the traditional risk factors... it is joyless striving! "

Favorite aspects of work: 
*  helping, serving and caring for others on a one-on-one basis
*  easing distress and/or pain; lifting spirits
*  camaraderie and friendships
*  opportunity to live out my spiritual aspirations
*  making a positive difference

 

"Take your favorite food and as you eat it, imagine that, for whatever reason, this is the last time you will ever taste it. Knowing that this experience will be lost forever,  squeeze as much enjoyment out of the experience as possible."


Favorite meals: 
*  breakfast
*  brunch

Favorite cuisines:   
*  Italian
*  Japanese
*  Hawaiian
*  Korean
*  Thai

Favorite foods:  
*  finger foods (see next list)
*  DH's Italian sausage spaghetti
*  fresh salads, Sue's potato salad
*  Mom's Hawai`i-style salad & laulau
*  anything cooked, baked or prepared by Joan

Favorite finger foods:  
*  sushi
*  pupu
*  dim sum
*  tapas
*  musubi / onigiri

Favorite sushi:  
*  mirugai (giant clam - geoduck)
*  natto (fermented soybeans, an acquired taste)
*  spicy tuna roll
*  sake (salmon) 
*  unagi  (eel)

Favorite cheap eats: 
*  Hawaiian mixed plate lunch
*  In-N-Out burger with slices of raw onion
*  Japanese bento
*  Arby's roast beef with horsey sauce
*  Vietnamese pho

Favorite comfort food:  
*  ice cream
*  BBQ potato chips
*  corned beef hash and eggs
*  DH's homecooking
*  Campbell's vegetable soup

Favorite fruits: 
*  Bosc pears (with Gorgonzola cheese)
*  chilled papaya 
*  ice-cold mango
*  raisins
*  apricots

Favorite vegetables: 
*  sweet corn
*  broccoli
*  onions
*  potatoes
*  soybeans

Favorite staples: 
*  poi
*  potatoes
*  Chinese mein (noodles)
*  pasta
*  rice

Favorite soups: 
*  hearty tomato & gazpacho
*  french onion
*  cioppino
*  saimin & won ton mein
*  Portuguese bean soup

Favorite main dishes: 
*  cioppino with abalone, lobster, crab, clams
*  veal saltimbocca
*  Aunty Chick's pork ribs
*  meat loaf
*  char siu

Favorite condiments: 
*  Del Monte catsup
*  bleu cheese dressing
*  ajitsuke nori (seasoned seaweed)
*  kosher dill pickles
*  wasabi

Favorite flavors:   
*  anything spicy 
*  red pepper flakes, Tabasco, Sriracha 
*  cinnamon 
*  cherry
*  peppermint 

Favorite drinks: 
*  I love water!   
*  grape soda
*  Ocean Spray cran-grape juice
*  carrot-apple-lemon, freshly juiced
*  Welch's Purple 100% grape juice

Favorite spirits:
*  Merlot
*  Delicato 2000 California Shiraz
*  Miller Lite
*  Bloody Mary
*  coffee drinks

Favorite breakfast items: 
*  steel-cut oatmeal with raisins and brown sugar
*  cinnamon rolls
*  corned beef hash and over easy eggs
*  blueberry anything
*  Just Right cereal

Favorite delectable desserts:
*  Coco's pumpkin pie a la mode
*  warm bread pudding with whiskey sauce
*  Dobash chocolate cake
*  Maraschino cherry cake
*  Cherries Jubilee

Favorite ice cream:
"I scream, you scream, we all scream for ice cream!"
*  Disneyland's Fantasia
(cherry, banana, pistachio)
*  Ben & Jerry's Cherry Garcia
*  Baskin & Robbins Pistachio Almond
*  Baskin & Robbins Jamoca Almond Fudge
*  Baskin & Robbins Rum Raisin

Favorite treats: 
*  chocolate-covered raisins
*  Altoids
*  shave ice
*  oatmeal raisin cookies
*  prune mui

Favorite Jelly Belly flavors: 
*  grape jelly
*  green apple
*  very cherry
*  pink grapefruit
*  watermelon

Favorite restaurants:
*  Ristorante al vero "Girarrosto Toscano"
 Via Campania 29, Rome, Italy
*  Cafe de `Oro, Capri, Italy 
*  Sam Choy's Diamond Head Restaurant, Kapahulu, HI
*  Commander's Palace, New Orleans, LA
*  JW's (French),  Anaheim, CA
*  Aroma's Italian Restaurant,  Buena Park, CA
*  Roy's, Nāpili, Maui, HI
*  Mama's Fish House, Paia, Maui, HI
*  Sushi Ichiban, Big Bear, CA,  909-866-6413

Favorite recipe sites:   
*   22 News
*  `Ono Recipes
*  Epicurious
*  Food TV
*  Sam Choy
*  Cook's Thesaurus

"When in New York City, 
live each day as if it were your last. 
Because you just might get run over by a cab."


Favorite places: 
*  home, bathtub, ultra-comfy bed  
*  mountains, forests, lakes
*  bookstores, libraries
*  Blue Grotto, Island of Capri, Italy
*  Hapuna Beach, Hawai`i

Favorite inspiring places: 
*  Eye of the God, CA 
*  Yosemite National Park
*  Beck Chapel, Indiana University, Bloomington
*  Sacred kukui grove of Lanikaula, Pu`u o Hoku Ranch, Molokai (legend) 
*  Waipi`o Valley, HI


Favorite villages:
*  Portofino, Italy
*  Big Bear, CA
*  Jackson Hole, WY
*  Ketchikan, AK
*  Sturbridge, MA

Favorite towns: 
*  Carmel-By-The-Sea, CA
*  Mendocino, CA
*  Stockbridge, MA
*  Bloomington, IN
*  Hilo, HI

Favorite US cities:
*  New York City, NY  
*  New Orleans, LA  
*  Honolulu, HI   
*  San Francisco, CA  
*  Disneyland Resorts, CA, The Happiest Place on Earth

Favorite international cities :
*  Florence, Italy
*  Barcelona, Spain
*  Paris, France
*  Copenhagen, Denmark
*  Kyoto, Japan

Favorite islands : 
*  Islet in an ancient fishpond, Kapoho, HI
*  Moloka`i, HI
*  Capri, Italy
*  Coconut Island, Hilo, HI
*  Guernsey, Channel Islands, UK

 

Aloha Tip of the Month: 
Live each day as if it were your last.
Tell those close to you that you love them, 
enjoy the beauty around you anew, 
and perform a "Random Act of Aloha" for a stranger
 -- offer to take a picture for a group of visitors,
throw away someone else's carelessly left trash, 
give up your seat in the bus to someone who could use it, 
and don't forget to smile... 
it will brighten someone's day. 

 

Favorite holidays: 
*  Thanksgiving Day
*  Mother's Day
*  Christmas
*  Valentine's
*  May Day in Hawai`i
*  New Year's in Hawai`i

Favorite seasons:  
*  Summer in the mountains
*  Winter in Hawai`i
*  Spring in Italy
*  Fall in New England

Favorite toys:  
*  computer
*  lap harp
*  teddy bears
*  CDs & videotapes
*  bicycles - mountain & street

Favorite kissers:
*  DH
*  Davey Jones
*  Freddy B
*  O
 

Go to:  Favorites 2

 Work like you don't need the money; 
dance like no one is watching; 
sing like no one is listening; 
love like you've never been hurt; 
and live every day as if it were your last.



"Life is a Gift."

Go about your days in joy, with love,

Author Unknown

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