We just thought it might be a good idea to put some information on our website to help out those who are either new to the spanking scene, or perhaps just new to chatting. There are multiple servers out there with hundreds of thousands of channels - each with their own group of friends (or strangers) and generally focused on certain aspects of life. What you read below gives you a general idea about some of the stuff you might encounter or need to know while chatting here in our channel. :c)
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"Dom" is the shortened male form of Dominant . . . and "Domme" the female form. Without going into too much detail about all the sorts of Doms/Dommes, let's just say that for general purpose, these are the people that GIVE a spanking . . . the SPANKERS. Very often referred to by "Sir" or "Ma'am" if you know what's good for you! "sub" is the shortened form of submissive, and is used for both males and females. Again, without going into much detail about all the sorts of subs, let's just say that for general purpose, these are the people that RECEIVE a spanking . . . the SPANKEE. They are most often referred to simply by their uncapped name . . . unless trouble is looming, and then they might become "young lady" or "little boy" or one of those other terms that just screams "I'm in big trouble!
An Op (or Channel Operator) will be one of the people you see in the names list with a @ beside their name. These are frequent visitors to the room, who have been around for a long time, and are familiar with our room rules. They are in place to help make sure the room stays under some semblance of control . . . that rules are being followed, and that if anyone needs help they can come to our Ops for it. Please do not hesitate to pm an Op immediately if you are experiencing problems with regards to other chatroom visitors, or perhaps have a technical question. They are here to help you!
There are subs (and some Doms and Dommes too...right BritBrat?) who like to have some good fun in addition to chatting in the room. They will pick on each other . . . pounce on each other and tickle . . . throw water balloons . . . duct tape one another over laps . . . etc etc etc. Now in the case of subs, this behavior is very often just a good way to get yourself spanked, and face it . . . we would not be here if we didn't LIKE it! For a Dom/Domme it is a sneaky way to get a sub to retaliate by bratting back, and then you get to spank him/her for doing that. Sounds like good fun don'tcha think?
Many of us consider #TheSitSpot our cyber home, and each other our cyber family. We hug each other as we greet, instead of just saying "Hi" or "Hello" to show how we feel. Now, as a new visitor to the room you may not get hugged at all, but once everyone starts to get to know you . . . the hugs will come pouring in. It is considered POOR taste to not return a hug that is offered in good faith . . . and uncaring to not give a sub at least a comforting hug after a spanking so that she knows she is forgiven for whatever transgression transpired. Don't get all homophobic on us either . . . females hug females . . . males hug males . . . as well as the opposite sex, but you need not return a hug if it makes you uncomfortable. Please at least let the person know in pm why you are experiencing discomfort with their hug.
You will sometimes see these used as part of a chatroom visitor's name. They are used so that other visitors are aware that they might not be at their computer or paying attention. "bbiab" means "be back in a bit" . . . "brb" means "be right back" . . . "afk" means "away from keyboard". You may also see other attachments to names such as "working" or "sleeping" . . . and they mean just that, the visitor is still logged onto the room, but is busy elsewhere. It is courteous to utilize these terms, so people don't think you're there and talk to you and hug you when you won't be reciprocating.
A lurker is a guest in a room who comes in . . . MAYBE returns greetings . . . and then just sits there taking up space for hours at a time with no interraction with others. This sort of person is not generally appreciated by others. Soooo, if you are a lurker . . . STOP IT !
In the world of Dominants (Doms) and submissives (subs), some couples choose to make a commitment to one another. Some choose to wear a cyber "collar" with the initials of their partner to signify their commitment. Sometimes this means that collared subs or Doms/Dommes will not engage in certain activities . . . and in this room we respect collars. There are also Doms and subs who are together and collared but do not wear a cyber collar, as that is their choice.
In order for visitors to differentiate between us here, we use Caps for Doms/Dommes (ie. PatientMan or MissKitty) and no Caps for subs/brats (ie. mousie or kitty). Out of respect, subs/brats are asked to use a Cap when addressing a Dom or Domme. Conversely, most subs will not care to be addressed with a Cap at the front of their name. Those who are switches may have a Cap in the middle of their name, or come into the room in the "mode" they currently feel comfortable with (either Dominant or submissive).
There are some people in this lifestyle that enjoy being both Dominant and submissive, so they will change their name according to their particular feeling at the time. For instance, DannyDom might be the same person as danny . . . and he will act as either a Dominant or submissive, depending on what "mode" he is in at the time.
Trolling is when someone comes into channel and says stuff like "Who wants to spank a naughty boy?" or "Male from Iowa looking for blonde girl to spank". Most spanking chatrooms do not encourage visitors to flat out either ask for a spanking . . . or to spank someone. Same goes for #TheSitSpot . . . get to know people first . . . maybe play a little, and then try spanking okay?
If a visitor to the room is not respecting our rules or others in the room, then Ops have the right to kick that person out of the room. This is very often to get the person's attention, to make them realize that coming to our home is a privilege and not a right. Those who are repeat offenders may be banned altogether from the room. That means you will not be allowed back in the room, as the maid4u{B} will keep track of your ISP addie.
This is a great program to use to visit chatrooms instead of JAVA. It has many advantages, and kicks JAVA's butt fer sure. It can be downloaded at http://www.mirc.co.uk/get.html and we encourage those who frequent chatrooms to use it. It will take some getting used to, but there are several of us around who are willing to help you get it set up . . . just ask!
Rather than have a confrontation in the channel, which is uncomfortable for others, please ask him/her in pm to leave you alone. If they will not heed your request, please contact an Op immediately. Do not hesitate to pm one of the Ops without asking, we are here to help. If there is not an Op available, we might suggest you leave the room and come back to visit later when the "problem person" has departed or an Op is available to help.
Just because we are all in a spanking chatroom does NOT mean that Doms/Dommes can have their pick of the subs and spank at will. In our room there must be consent . . . that means that the sub agrees to be punished by you. If you are unsure as to how he/she feels, then pm and make sure first okay? Please be advised that bratting a Dom implies consent . . . so, if you do not wish to be spanked . . . then DON'T brat! Doms/Dommes? NO means NO
Although this is an adult room, there are people who are offended by cursing and sexual scening in the open room. We also feel that it brings a little "class" to the room to not have these things in main. If you wish to curse or engage in sexual activities of some kind, please take it into private.
How to change your nick - type in /nick newnick (ie. If your name was Guest123 and you wanted to be Bob . . . you would type in /nick Bob How to "pm" someone - In some programs you can double click on the name in the list of the person you wish to pm . . . or in others you can highlight the name in the names list, and then right click and bring up the menu . . .click on QUERY How to change rooms - There are other rooms on the server, so if you choose to leave us . . . you can type in /join nameofroom (don't forget the # part directly in front of the room name). For a list of other rooms on the server type in /list How to be on more than on server with mIRC - don't close down the one you have open . . . just go back to where you normally open mIRC and click on the icon again, which will open up another mIRC for you . . . then you can decide what other server you would like to visit How to perform an "action" in the room - type in /me action . . . so, if you're name is Anne and you want to take billy across your knee you would type in /me takes billy across her knee . . . just start any action with /me |
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