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His love for me makes him naturally think of me before the rest of the world.
I'll always be number one in his heart and mind, just as he is to me.
that I have but I also look forward to us sharing new
activities with each other.
and I'm no different from anyone else.
But I also realize that to limit my search by putting all kinds of restrictions on the 'type' of
person I want to meet might mean that I would never meet the man who's soul is bound to mine.
When you stop to think about it our bodies change with time, as we grow older.
If your love is based on the package it may go away as that package changes.
If you love the person inside - the package, the person - will always be beautiful to you,
no matter what happens to the outside.
I hope that the man that I fall in love with is tall and dark and handsome, that's normal.
But if he isn't. If his ouside isn't as beautiful as his inside, then that is how it shall be.
For it is the man inside that I truly seek.
For the man, the love, the important things, come from the inside, not the outside.
But, if you have warts... we go to the doctor. okay?
I'm not going to give on these. I did the last time, knowing I shouldn't,
and I ended up being the one that got hurt.
I won't make that mistake again.....
HONESTY and FIDELITY
I catch you in a lie, I walk - No discussion.
I catch you cheating, I walk - No discussion.
Okay.. there are certain traits that are of interest to me...
I would very much prefer someone of my own race (white).
Simply because that is what I am attracted to and more comfortable with.
I would prefer someone close to my own age. Give or take a few years. Most of the time if the age difference is too great you end up in a situation where your experiences and attitudes are just so far apart because of the spread that you can lose that part that is special between you.
I'm not going to limit myself too strictly here.
But I still would prefer to stay within a rough age range.
If you're only a couple of years outside the range that I posted (38 to 50) and we have a
lot in common, don't walk away. Let's talk for a bit and see how it goes.
You may just be the exception to the rule.
Most of all to look into my loves' eyes and know from those eyes that he loves me.
That he will always tell me the truth.
Even if it hurts.
He must always speak the truth.
I want to share my life with someone that chooses to share his with me.
There will always be parts of our lives that are separate.
Chances are good, that unless we work from home, that our jobs will be different.
We'll also have some friends that we may not have in common.
But mostly our lives will be something that we will happily choose to share with each other.
Because of our love. Because we want to...
Forcing someone that you love to be with you is not love. It's control.
I don't want to control. I don't want to be controlled.
I want to know that if my love says that he would like to spend a day with me that he truly does.
That he isn't just giving up a day to 'keep the peace'.
There is a difference...
We all need time to ourselves. To be able to participate in activities that perhaps we don't both share.
That is good and healthy. There is also an additional plus.
By doing 'our own thing' we get to come home and happily share the day with each other.
It's so much fun to hear how much the one you love enjoyed their day and be able to hear
the highlights and stories from someone that is truly happy to be there with you.
Instead of sitting apart.
Angry.
Because the one that is controlled dare not speak of their 'misdeed'.
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