Welcome to my mind
All I ask is you open your mind whilst reading these pages
This bit is not so much about me but about my opinions on this lifestyle and to help others. Lets face it you are looking at these pages for one of two reasons. Reason one is you are genuinely intrigued about swinging and open marriages and want to know more. Reason two you want to look at some sexy pictures of my wife Tracy with not many clothes on. Either way you are welcome. If it's reason one you logged on to this site then read on (others may find Tracy's section more of interest). A little background on me first. I am an only child (many would say thank god) love food, football and all the usual things in life. I am also dysliexic (why is that such a hard word to spell) so please forgive any slight spelling and gramer errors here. The most important thing you need to know about me is I will give anything a try with an open mind and think that this is the most important way to live your life. Tracy, my wife is also my best freind and soul mate and I love her with all my heart. So now onto my opinion.
I am not going to bang on about the reasons why this way of life is such a great thing, as they are pretty obvious. This lifestyle gives you all the commitment, trust and love that a conventional marriage does whilst allowing both people as a couple, or to an extent as singles to experience other sexual encounters most people give up after their early 20's. This life also allows you to try out your fantasies without guilt, and builds up rather than erodes the bond between you and your partner. So instead I am going to look at reasons not to get involved. These I have broken down into two categories A and B. I would suggest both you and your partner read these.
Category A
 
1)You or your partner doesn't want to
  Your partner is turned off by the idea beacuse they have no desire
  to try it out.
 
2)Jealousy
  You or your partner have been very jealous in past 
  relationships.
 
3) Honesty & Communiction
  You or your partner find it hard to talk openly and honestly about
   feelings and the relationship.
Catergory B
 
1) Morality
  Its not morally acceptable to live like this.
 
2) Acceptance from others
  Other people would view us differently and it would effect our way
  of life.
 
3) Religion
  Hell and damnation for all involved.
Ok make a note of the ones that would stop you and ask yourself why before reading the next page :-
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