When I started putting the site together I wrote a little bit about meeting other people which was essentially about sex and how to make it happen. I had quite a lot of positive feedback about it and I've kept it in.
But after my wife discovered that she was married to a TV, it became pretty apparent that there was going to have to be a lot more here tham just how to hook up with another trannie, and that sex really has to fit in with our wider relationships. In the end, Pen felt that she wanted to write a piece that might help other partners come to terms with transvestism and she's done just that. Personally I think its a great piece of work, offering some useful observations without making swingeing judgements. Mind you, thats Pen for you...
I also wanted to write a companion piece to go with it, talking about the things that I felt were important for any TV who's in a long term relationship. So I did, and that's included here as well. I also wanted to broaden the scope of the whole 'Relationships' thing a bit. One's partner is almost always the most important person in one's life, but anyone active on the TV scene is likely to make friends and also perhaps to form relationships that may be sexual in nature. These people are important too.
Remember that everything you read here is from a personal perspective, either mine or Pen's. You may or may not agree, and we certainly wouldnt suggest for a moment that either of us have all the answers. But I hope you find it interesting and I hope that for some of you it will help.
Partners & Friends Some thoughts from Pen and Trisha
TVs & Sex How to find someone