Tranvestite Sex - Taking a Walk on the Wild Side
	First off, this bit isnt all about graphic descriptions of sexual encounters. This IS a Geocities site after all.  What I did want to do was to look seriously at sex and the TV girl and share some experiences and thoughts. As I've said elsewhere, being a TV isn't easy and the hardest thing for me was to come to terms with my sexuality.  Most of what follows comes from my own perspective and personal tastes -  so if you want to know about picking up guys, sorry, but to some extent you're on your own although there's obviously a lot of common ground.  One thing I don't go into at all is the ethics of the whole thing. Either you or your potential sexual partner may be married or in a long term relationship. It's not my right (or wish) to judge whether it's ethically sound to be screwing around or not. That is emphatically up to you.... SO - if you're feeling confused about your sexual feelings, wonder where its all going,  dont know where to start etc etc, then read on and I'll probably confuse you even more.........
		Getting Yourself Known: See someone you fancy? Or do you just generally want to meet with another girl? Before you can even think of making contact, you need to be visible to the other girls on the Net. Are you a Member of a Group or a Contacts site? Do you have pictures available? Have a Website? If the answer to all of these questions is 'No', how on earth do you expect to meet anyone? Websites, Groups, and dating sites are all places that I've  posted, and yes, they do work and I recommend them. But you absolutely have to have pictures. Lets face it, without them how can other people judge what you're like? Personally, I'm attracted to a clear picture that shows the person's face; I ignore the sort of 'headless' shots you see all over the place and certainly shots like that that focus on someone's dangly bits. I do actualy know what a penis looks like..... In my opinion the only people who should post headless shots are those CDs who dont wear makeup or a wig and if you're one of them, thats fine but make sure that you state the fact up front. And be prepared to accept that it may limit your prospects of meeting someone. So - nice pic. Is that enough? Well, you should also state where you live or where you can meet. Not much point in steamy emails if I live in Hampshire and you live in Des Moines, is there? Sex is a big part of the experience for most TV girls. That can be solo sexual activity, or our sexual fantasies  may involve other girls like us. . We don't only try to meet up for sex of course. Like anyone else, we want to connect with others like us who want to share common ground, and to stave off the loneliness that comes of being not quite like the average bloke. So when you get that email from another girl at last, don't assume she's after your body and don't assume that sex is the only thing on the agenda. Even girls who want sex are often happy to meet and chat by the way, so if you're not ready for the whole works just yet don't go running scared. In the next section, I'm going to talk about that first contact. Go To 'Making Contact'