Client Tips |
| 1. Make your first contact memorable for me. Be concise, honest, friendly and open with me. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest the best time for you. (Don't say, "How about some time next week?") Mention my fee if you don't already know, but don't ask specific questions about it. Don't be graphic or specific - EVER. 2. Tell me a little bit about yourself. Tell me where you heard about me. Don't waste my time I get plenty of inquiries, make yours stand out. Talking on the phone or via e-mail gives you a great idea about what I'm going to be like in person. If I'm friendly and nice, you know I will be the same in person. It's also your chance to start building my perception of you. Be respectful. I am a real person. Treat me like you would a girlfriend or lover, and I will respond positively. It sounds simple, but some guys are pushy and rude. 3. Now that you've made a good first impression, carry it through to the appointment. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much "cheap" cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would scare me or cause me to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression! 4. Be confident and relaxed. Act like you've done this before. Greet me cordially. Give me a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug or kiss on the cheek!) and smile and look me in the eye. Be nice--it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts. 5. Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope is always a nice touch. Don't seal the envelope. Please do not hand it directly to me unless I extend my hand - but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. Nothing. Just put it on the table in payment for my time. Don't argue, ask for explanations, and try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded! 6. I will likely ask you if you would "...like to get comfortable?" This is your cue to disrobe completely. I will likely go into the bathroom, wait a few minutes and then return to the room expecting to see you naked on the bed. Make small talk and we will get to know each other for a few minutes. Don't be grabbing and making crude remarks. Everything in its time... 7. Talk to me. This is simple but very, very effective. Talk about me - compliment my attire, my hairstyle, and my perfume. Whatever, but be honest - phoniness shows up quickly. If I ask about you, be open and honest - it shows. I like to relax and have a good time, just like you. Talking during the session relaxes everyone and makes it more enjoyable for all. Don't be pushy or grabby. Let me guide the session at my pace. You would be surprised at the improvement in service you'll get. 8. After we get to know each other a bit, I may stroke or rub you a little. Let it progress on it's own rhythm. I am aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the allotted time. At this time, I may ask, "What do you like?" This is your cue to explain in more detail what you like and what you'd like to get from the session. If you encounter a "No!" response, then just don't break stride, and be sure that you respect my guidelines. If it's really, really important to you, then you might try begging just a little. Above all, accept my limits, treat me with respect and caring, and you will have a good session anyway. 9. Be a gentle and considerate lover. Women operate on a much more sensitive level than men do. Spend a little time on foreplay. Tell me when it feels good. Ask me if what you are doing feels good or if what you are getting ready to do is OK. Communicate and ask when you are ready to move on to the next plateau or position. 10. If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. By doing so it is a wonderful way to show me how much you enjoyed my company. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from $20 to $100 would surely be appreciated. Figure this into your budget for the evening. This final step will serve you very, very well. Bonus Tip: The final thought here is to use common sense and civility at all times. The above points are mostly just that. Treat me, as you would like to be treated - with respect, kindness, caring, and genuine sensitive feelings. |
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