46. If you've ever chanced to try meeting or dating a beautiful woman, you are well aware that it is not an easy enterprise to carry off. It can't be. Overpopulation would be the result. But when you consider all sides, you see that there is a subtle logic to it all.

47. Ugly woman: you could be beautiful too. Find out what
    they do.

48. If you came to this site looking for porn, you're luckier than you think. From today forward, you will never need porn again.

49. This whore manual has and continues to grow from your questions.

50. This is a manual for men. It explains the attitudes, behavior and habits of the man in a harmonious relationship with a woman. It is simply a heuristic; it makes no claims to describing reality.

51. This is a manual indicating the way in which a man should temper his reactions to the opposite sex.

52. The current guiding conventions are outdated and in fact misleading. They apply to an older, less self-conscious form of life.

53. This is a manual for both casual dating and loving relationships.

54. Get it? It's not about you at all. This manual is about getting over yourself. Soon you will realize that women never reject you, but only what you do.

55. Rarely try to be funny. If you do, you'll be considered a wise guy who is only really funny sometimes. Only say something funny if it's out there dying to be said. More importantly, your mental clarity suffers when you are constantly forcing the mind to think of something funny.

56. The object of existence and thus with her is mental clarity. This clarity can only come when you have become free of dependence--that is, dependence on anyone (girlfriend, friend, parent) for your emotional well-being. Note: this does not mean that you should strive for independence--this is reactionary, and a wig-out's solution. There is a distinction between freedom and independence, and it is simply that the latter is defiant, unrealistic, and driven by will-power, while the former is calm and driven by a clear wakeful understanding of one's situation.

57. Since initial meetings with women should be kept brief and electric, you might feel a certain longing for her after they end. Your convention-conditioned mind still clings to the idea that you will lose her unless you repeatedly bombard her with your presence. Nothing could be further from the truth.
    With short visits and a day or two of separation in between, you will create a fire too profound to burn out. Yes, she may see other men in the interval--but the fire between them will necessarily be of a surface character and short-lived. The procedure behind this thought is as follows:

    1. After having sex with her, decide whether the woman is a potential life-mate.
    2. If you decide that (a) is true, then you love her.
    3. Keep the first few meetings with this woman brief--i.e., don't go out with this woman on a formal date just yet. For the first month, just find ways to encounter her every few (at least three) days. The meetings should not last more than twenty minutes. Keep these conversations as electric as you can and cut them off when the electricity reaches its peak. Here is where, as I have mentioned above, you may feel longing and the desire to possess her completely. Do not succumb to this desire. She is neither yours nor any one else's.
    4. Do not mention your feelings for her, they are irrelevant. They will necessarily come out in the short meetings with her. The idea is to emphasize her freedom to do that which makes her happy. The idea is to give her a relationship with a man that is not based on any need. This will fulfill her and will help her to see needy, grasping, empty men for who they really are.
    5. Remember, you are not waiting, you are creating a foundation of trust and real emotion without impeding her ability to explore. This state of being is what I call the Child Empire--the Empire of play, where there is no fear, no neuroticism, and no heaviness. The traditional relationship model is one based on mutual fear and loneliness--it is sick and stifling.
    6. Only after you have shown her the way into the Child Empire, will you then be able to come together as mating partners. This will not be an ordinary relationship. There will be no jealousy of any kind, no possessiveness, no mutual gratification, only fun and exploration.
    7. The rules here expressed are for those who have not yet entered the Child Empire; thus, they are still horny, neurotic and needy. These rules are designed as stepping stones in the climb to the Child Empire--where all these rules are no longer conscious; they are second nature. They follow from your child-like non-ego. In the Child Empire, you are no longer an isolated self.
    
    

58. One of the best topics of conversation: How stupid you are. Say something like, "Sometimes I think I'm mentally retarded." You will see her eyes light up with interest. I'm not sure why.

59. When you make a gesture in her direction, don't try to explain what you're doing. When you call her, don't say why you're calling. When you visit her, don't say why you've come to see her. Statements like, "I just called to see how you're doing." or "I just came by to say hi." are very bad to say.

60. When you are at a loss about what to say to her, never compliment her. Nor should you compliment her to get somewhere with her. When you do compliment, avoid referring to yourself.

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