| This spell is for communicating feelings and emotions to people we have lost ~ be it through death or simply having lost touch with someone. It is not about getting words to that person ~ it is about portraying emotions. Soul letters are more than just a spell. They help to ease the sadness, and come to terms with loss. This really is a powerful spell, and will bring forth emotions that you should think carefully about before even starting this spell. This is not a promise to anyone to bring back a lost one. It is put here to let your feelings out, and begin to heal. More than that, it is about learning to forgive yourself. For all the thoughts of love you never said, for every person you have hurt and didn't say sorry to, and for each time you didn't show affection and wished you had done.... all this affects our 'karma' , and this spell helps to restore the emotional balance. |
| Soul ~ Letters expressing love and accepting forgiveness |
| LIGHT NINE CANDLES: THREE EACH OF BLUE, WHITE AND SILVER ~ IN THAT ORDER. LIGHTING THE FIRST CANDLE , THINK ON THE PERSON YOU HAVE LOST. THE SECOND CANDLE IS FOR REFLECTING ON THE RELATIONSHIP YOU HAD WITH THEM ~ WHETHER OR NOT IT WAS GOOD OR BAD, YOU MUST STILL PONDER ON THIS. THE THIRD CANDLE IS FOR YOU. WHAT DID THIS PERSON MAKE YOU FEEL. ACCEPT THIS EMOTION, AND DWELL ON IT FOR A FEW SECONDS. ON THE FOURTH CANDLE, TRY TO REMEMBER SOMETHING YOU WOULD HAVE SAID TO THIS PERSON WERE THEY THERE TO LISTEN. ON LIGHTING THE FIFTH CANDLE, SAY ALOUD THE FIRST WORD THAT COMES INTO YOUR HEAD WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THIS PERSON. THE SIXTH CANDLE SHOULD BE LIT WHEN YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT EMOTIONS ~ BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF, AND ADMIT WHETHER YOU FEEL YOU HAD EXPRESSED YOUR TRUE FEELINGS TO THE PERSON YOU HAVE LOST. THE SEVENTH CANDLE IS FOR IMAGINATION ~ IMAGINE YOURSELF HOLDING THIS PERSON, AND YOUR HUG BEING ACCEPTED WITH LOVE AND AFFECTION. THE EIGHTH CANDLE IS FOR ACCEPTING THE LOSS ~ KNOW THE LIMITATIONS OF THE SPELL YOU ARE WORKING. THIS WILL NOT BRING THE PERSON BACK TO YOU, BUT ACCEPTANCE IS AN IMPORTANT PART OF THIS SPELL. BY REALISING THE LIMITATIONS, YOU WILL SLOWLY ACCEPT THAT LIFE HAS TO GO ON, AND THAT THE PERSON YOU WANT TO EXPRESS THESE FEELINGS TO WILL FEEL THEM, WHERE EVER THEY MAY BE. TRUST IN THE POWER YOU HOLD WITHIN. THE NINTH CANDLE IS QUITE IMPORTANT ~ ASK YOURSELF WHY YOU WANT TO DO THIS SPELL. THE ANSWER IS NOT SO IMPORTANT AS THE FEELINGS THAT YOU HAVE WHEN YOU ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTION. NEXT YOU WILL NEED A PEN AND PAPER. ONE MUST BE PURPLE, AND THE OTHER WHITE ~ IT DOESN'T MATTER WHICH IS WHICH. START TO WRITE A LETTER, EXPRESSING EVERYTHING YOU WANT TO SAY TO THE PERSON. WRITE DOWN EVERYTHING ~ NOMATTER IF YOU RAMBLE ON, OR REPEAT YOUR WORDS. THE IMPORTANT THING HERE IS TO WRITE DOWN EVERYTHING YOU FEEL, ALL YOU WANT TO SAY, AND EVERY EMOTION. THIS MAY MAKE YOU FEEL VERY EMOTIONAL, AND SO IT IS BEST TO BE ALONE WHEN DOING THIS SPELL. BEING ALONE WILL ALSO HELP WITH YOUR CONCENTRATION ~ AND YOU SHOULDN'T FEEL EMBARRASSED TO CRY OR EVEN SCREAM OUT LOUD. TAKE AS MUCH TIME AS YOU NEED. REMEMBER TO FINISH THE LETTER BY SIGNING IN A WAY THAT THE PERSON WILL RECOGNISE YOU. (PERHAPS IF THEY HAD A NICKNAME FOR YOU, YOU COULD SIGN THE LETTER WITH THAT NAME) WHEN YOU FEEL IT IS DONE, YOU MUST BURN THE LETTER IN A FIREPROOF BOWL WITH A SPRIG OF ROSEMARY. LIGHT THE PAPER FROM THE FLAME OF THE NINTH CANDLE YOU LIT. SEE THE PAPER BURN, AND VISUALISE THE SMOKE RISING AND HELPING TO RELEASE THE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS TOO. IF THE PAPER STOPS BURNING, RELIGHT IT FROM THE FIRST OR LAST CANDLE, UNTIL THERE IS NOTHING LEFT BUT ASHES. IT IS OKAY IF THE ROSEMARY DOESN'T BURN, BUT IT SHOULD BE CRUSHED. CAREFULLY WRAP THE ASHES AND ROSEMARY IN WHITE COTTON, OR PLACE THEM INTO A WHITE ENVELOPE. DURING THE NIGHT, TAKE THE ASHES OUTSIDE ~ YOU MAY DO THREE THINGS WITH THE ASHES DEPENDING ON WHAT YOU FEEL THE PERSON WOULD HAVE LIKED BEST: BURY THE ASHES INTO THE EARTH SPRINKLE THEM INTO MOVING WATER. LET THE WIND TAKE THEM AWAY. WHICHEVER ONE YOU DO, AS IT IS DONE RECITE THE FOLLOWING: "I DO THIS HERE BY LIGHT OF MOON, AND KNOW THESE WORDS WILL REACH YOU SOON" KNOW IN YOUR HEART THAT THE PERSON WILL HAVE YOUR MESSAGE SOON. |
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