Talking both sexes is hard for
I afraid that I would fall into the same stereotypes of men and women.
We humans always fall into the same stereotypes feeling that men are stronger than women are. This does not matter for I think both have something
different and I think that men are basically design to be stronger and to
dominate women. Girls need to face the truth that, you, are different and
we are the one who dominate. Or else, the world will worked improperly.
I have proofs and I can
proof it correct, but I will proof it in a metaphysical way and uses reasoned
falsehood to proof it wrong; I want to show you that, we, men, are built
to have a feeling of domination and girls are built to follow men. This
does not do with nurture but nature. We have these feelings naturally but
not by environment or causes.
When we think of God. We
will sure think of a person that has long beard, muscular, men, man voice,
King(man), etc. We will not think of a person that has big breast, long
hair, feminine and is a girl. Even if we aware of it, we still couldn't
rely too much on a feminine God, we will sure feel insecure following it.
Girls feel secure with man for girls create to rely. Even mostly girls
choose a boyfriend is to have a person to rely on. Girls are create to
be dependent and guys are create to be independent. Believe it or not,
we are like that. There is no doubt for it; even one try to prove it wrong,
but one still couldn't exclude the feeling of being different. Even girls
try to prove it wrong; she maybe used lots of evidence to prove I'm wrong,
but she still couldn't throw away a sense of relying, , being love and
depend on someone. Even girls like to have a close friend whereas guys
like to be independent.
Girl's conversational topics
are different from guys. Girls like to talk about love, family, future,
family, boy girl relationships, husband, internal problems, feelings, scenarios,
emotional topics, invisible things and lots more. Whereas guys like to
talk about cars, girls, body, courier, internet, money, status, fame, job,
past, rational topics, schools, people, history, examples, visible things
and lots more. As you can see, men and women are different in so many ways.
But which is stronger ?
As you can see, girls try
to talk about themselves, and their feelings, which means they are create
to ask questions to certain or confirm about themselves, girls feel uncertain
about themselves easily, thus they need confirmation. Guys are more certain,
that's why they like external things, for external things make them feel
secure with their internal needs. So gals find emotional support to support
their internal needs while guys search for materiel to suite their internal
needs which says that guys are more independent. As you can see, girls
try to use question tag in conversation while guys use "full stop" questions.
This also means that guys feel certain and independent and girls need emotional
support and need to rely on someone, unsure and need to be dominated for
they uses question tag more; it is not their choice, it is her "boy" friend's
decisions.
Girls can search for freedom
but they couldn't find dependent. For many years, female had been searching
for equality and it doesn't worked. This is also a matter of intrinsic
dependent motive. From my opinion, I think gals only can successfully strive
for freedom but not for social equality. We are not talking about equal
and not equal, we are talking about can we think we are equal ? Cannot,
this is a fact inside us and we have to accept it.
Lastly, we are just humans,
what's the use striving for it ? Does it matter so much ? Will the world
be nicer with this beauty of inequality ? Actually, by accepting this
inequality, many things can still be done, and this will also make a better
world, for we can use our strong part to motivate the world. What for being
different ? We have a given goodness in each and every one of us. Why should
we unite and be the same ? Imagine what can we do if we unite our power
but not our character. It will surely be a better world.
Dennis Yap Tsong Hsih
