Your shoulders slump.  "You mean I can't have Chris?"

        "I didn't say that," Doris says.  "I'm saying that you need to focus on what kind of love you want and if Chris fits the bill and you and the God/dess agree, then I hope you and Chris will be very happy together."

        "So I'm just supposed to sit around and wait to see if some divine force sees fit to grant my request?"

        "Not at all," Doris says.  "Witchcraft is not a passive religion.  You make things happen by pursuing your goal.  Spell-work can give that added umph to your impetus."

Whitch Way do you go?
 
You say, "My impetus often needs a good swift umph."
 

You say, "So far the spell sounds like more work than the pursuing."