Wholesome Nudity
Quick Marriage Tune-Up


Remember a long time ago when your marriage seemed ideal and you and your spouse had no cares whatsoever? Did something happen to your lovely marriage? What was it? It was a communication problem. WAIT!!!!!! Don't skip out of this page yet!!!!!!

What happened? When you had no children and you were both starting out, nothing got in the way of you and your adorable spouse. But as time went, and kids came, things changed.

The wife gets to stay home and take care of the kids (hoo-rah!) while the husband earns the bread. After a long, hard day with the kids, the wife doesn't want to have ANYTHING to do with ANYBODY. Its subtle and will take a period of time to come to this, but it will happen. This is interpreted by the husband as 1) a lack of interest in sex, 2) a lack of interest in you. Then feelings get ruffled easy and the constant flow of communication slows down.

Bills come in and it becomes a burden to make ends meet. Then the husband doesn't want to talk either.

Pretty soon neither the wife nor the husband has that intimacy that comes from the CONVERSATION they used to have. A husband really does want to talk -- perhaps not as much as the wife, but he still wants to have a woman who will listen to his heart.

When that intimacy at home decreases by the day, the husband will look for someone who will listen to his heart. If some woman at the office spends time listening to him, the wife at home is in danger. One day the husband comes home, declares that he doesn't love you anymore and is initiating a divorce. What happened?

The woman at the office captured his heart, and the lonely husband feels like this woman at work will listen to him. If the communication problem isn't fixed, the second marriage may not work out either.

Its a divorce that never should have happened!! (Do I hear any "AMEN's" out there?)

Okay. What can be done about this 'communication problem'? One of the answers is this: Frequent breaks from the daily routine of taking care of the kids. (C'mon, guys! How long would you last doing her job?) Take a weekend a month and have an overnight trip somewhere romantic. Spend some time together undisturbed by the kids. Relieve your wife of stress with these getaways. Talk a lot. Share your heart a lot. Make it so that there are no secrets between the two of you. That takes courage and time, but is well worth it. And on occasion, have a weekend of wild sex with each other.

Put these mini-vacations in your budget. They are *very* important. Get away together frequently!

A message to the men is appropriate here: Men, when your wife talks to you, look at her straight in the eye. Pay attention to her! You may be able to repeat what she is telling you, but are you really listening? Treat your wife like your hunting buddy or other true friend. Forget about bills, work, projects, the to-do list, updating your bank account -- until you have had a SATISFYING talk (in HER opinion) with her. This is part of real 'communication' with your wife.

Christian families have become materialistic and have burdened with debt and plans for getting ahead too fast. Why not consider a momentary change in lifestyle and try out social nudism once? The cost to be nude is literally 'nothing', and to spend time together nude can help rebuild that precious communication.

You have heard, "If you want something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done." Try it just for kicks!

This one "tune-up" won't fix all of your problems, but you will be amazed how far it goes in helping out.

Paul Harvey, the radio new commentator, found these two items in common to long-lasting marriages:
1) A sense of humor in both partners, and 2) Faith in God.

As a Christian, I believe that trust in Jesus Christ is essential for a good marriage. Being married and happy takes work and prayer, even for Christians. Time in conversation with your spouse keeps communication channels open. Communication itself is a skill that needs to be developed. Mates must allow all conversation to be free, even wild or bad ideas must free to share. As long as mates are chatting a lot and sharing everything, the chances of a breakup are slim.

If bringing up social nudism wouldn't be safe to talk about openly with your marriage partner, then you will endanger yourself by forcing the subject on him/her. Your relationship may have to be worked on before you can have "Heart-to-Heart" talks with your spouse..

Don't you think so?

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