"SEX and the (not necessarily) Single Girl"
 
Beam me up, sexy ... and love me to heights of pleasure that women have never reached before.
  That's the message from girls for the year 2001 in an astonishing scientific survey.The nationwide survey carried out by a respected pollster shows women are:
  • BEDDING more men and often having more than one lover at a time.
  • SEDUCING strangers if they see a man they want and happliy enjoying one-night-stands.
  • FANTASISING while making love to increase their satisfaction.
  • CHEATING on their partners if they are not satisfied in bed.
  • EXPRESSING their sexual desires with other women.
It also went on to show them:
  • CHEATING on their men, often over and over again.
  • LURING married men away from their wives.
  • ENJOYING more and more affairs in the workplace, but also:
  • DISCOVERING they have been betrayed by unfaithful partners.
Lists here are compiled from the data collected by the survey and are either amusing or educational or well worth going along with.(Go with the flow is my motto. Axiompc)
 
SEDUCTION SEDUCERS CHEATS FUN GIRLS STATISTICS KEEP LOVING
OFFICE AFFAIR WAGES OF SIN FANTASIES WHY FANTASY SEX FACTS

TEN top tips on SEDUCTION.

Every man longs to be seduced - whether you've just met or are long-term lovers. Here are a few tips...

  1. MAKE it clear you're interested from the first eye contact.
  2. DRESS to kill and don't forget the sexy undies.
  3. GET him to focus on you. Use his name and brush against him.
  4. MAKE him feel special. Keep eye contact. Flatter him.
  5. SET the mood. Refer to times you've felt aroused before.
  6. HINT at what you can do in bed.
  7. TEASE him. When things get interesting, break off for a while.
  8. SHOW him that he excites you, with your eyes and breathing.
  9. MAKE the running. Be first to touch him intimately. Undress him - then do a strip tease!
  10. BE WILD and willing. Use hands, mouth and your body so he can't wait for the next time.

TEN famous SEDUCERS
 
  1. MADONNA: Sex personified since her hit 'Like a Virgin'.
  2. ALEXIS CARRINGTON (Joan Collins): Dynasty character was THE 1980s Scarlet Woman.
  3. MONICA LEWINSKY: Her affair with US President Bill Clinton nearly toppled him.
  4. CAMILLA PARKER BOWLES: Diana was no match for Prince Charles' lover Camilla.
  5. ANTHEA TURNER: TV's girl-next-door seduced her best pal's husband Grant Bovey.
  6. NATALIE BARNES (Denise Welch): She lured Street's Kevin Webster from Sally.
  7. NICOLE APPLETON: All Saint's conquests include Liam Gallagher and Robbie Williams.
  8. CATHERINE ZETA JONES: Dated a string of celebs before landing Michael Douglas.
  9. PATSY KENSIT: Updates pop partners like most of us change our record collection.
  10. KYLIE MINOGUE: Little Miss Prim is now a man magnet.

TEN CELEBRITY CHEATS
 
  1. ANTHEA TURNER cheated on Peter Powell with Grant Bovey, now her husband.
  2. FERGIE was caught having her toe sucked by Johnny Bryan while wed to Prince Andrew.
  3. AMANDA HOLDEN wife of Les Dennis, fell for Neil Morrisey while filming a TV drama.
  4. PRINCESS DIANA told TV's Panorama she'd committed adultery with James Hewitt.
  5. SOPHIE WARD: The model walked out on her husband for a woman, lesbian Rena Brannan.
  6. MEG RYAN cheated on Dennis Quaid with hunky Russell Crowe.
  7. PAT EVANS shocked Eastenders fans and husband Roy by beddibg Frank Butcher.
  8. CHARLIE DIMMOCK cheated on lover John Mushet with TV sound man Andy Simmonds.
  9. LISA COOKE left husband David for rugby star Will Carling.
  10. KYLIE MINOGUE: Had a fling with Michael Hutchence while seeing Jason Donovan.

TEN FACTS on FUN GIRLS
 
  1. THREE out of four - 76 per cent - of single women have had multiple lovers.
  2. EIGHT per cent of those women have had more than 20 lovers
  3. NEARLY one-in-five - 19 per cent - of women who have been cheated on have had more than 10 lovers.
  4. SIX-in-10 married women have had more than one lover.
  5. ALMOST three quarters - 73 per cent - of all women under 30 have had multiple sexual partners.
  6. WOMEN who have had more than 20 lovers are more likely to cheat than those who have had less partners.
  7. THIRTEEN per cent of mums say they would have a one-night stand.
  8. A QUARTER of women aged 20 - 30 would have a one-night stand.
  9. SEVEN per cent of mums who have had several lovers have notched up between 11 and 19 lovers.
  10. ONE-in-five women who had more than 11 sexual partners would sleep with someone within a week of meeting them.

TEN STARTLING STATISTICS
 
  1. ALMOST a quarter - 22 per cent - of women under 30 have had an affair but only 10 per cent of over 40s.
  2. FORTY one per cent of the cheats have had at least 11 partners
  3. OF ALL women, 15 per cent have cheated. Yet more than half of those cheated ON admit to 10 pratners or more.
  4. FIFTY eight per cent of women with unfaithful partners had also had an affair.
  5. TEN per cent of married women have been unfaithful - and 31 per cent of singles, divorcees or widows.
  6. AMONG mums, 11 per cent have cheated.
  7. TWENTY one per cent of women with sex lives LESS fulfilling than their mums' strayed.
  8. NEARLY a quarter of women find out their partner has cheated.
  9. HALF of women cheated on are single, divorced or widowed.
  10. AMAZINGLY 26 per cent of betrayed women believe today's promiscuity is a good thing.

TEN Reasons to KEEP LOVING
 
  1. FINANCIAL independence. Women are no longer dependent on men.
  2. BETTER contraception. They no longer fear getting pregnant.
  3. SEXY role models. Gone are the days of the Waltons.
  4. BETTER and more jobs. More chances of meeting interesting men.
  5. ADVANCES in fertility treatment. Women can play the field for longer before having children.
  6. NO STIGMA to being single. People's perceptions of the single girl have changed from pity to envy.
  7. IMPROVED maternity rights. More women can bring children up alone and keep their jobs.
  8. THE RISE in divorce rate. Being single is no longer unusual.
  9. ASSERTIVENESS. Women are portrayed as more than equal to men in books, films and the media. This has filtered through to public consciousness.
  10. GIRL POWER. The Spice Girls-led craze of the '90s has given the free, single girl a sexy and strong image - men can't resist it!

TEN Reasons OFFICE AFFAIRS BEGIN
 
  1. FLINGS flourish at work because there are so many men for a woman to pick from. There is plenty of opportunity to get chatting. Things can easily develop rapidly . . . particularly at those overnight conferences.
  2. MANY women are turned on by power. And even in the modern workplace there tend to be more men than women in authority. A girl attracted to her boss may not just be turned on by his mind.
  3. SADLY, some women still think they can sleep their way to the top. They can launch into affairs, hoping that sex will earn them rapid promotion. And there is no shortage of men happy to play along.
  4. HIGH PRESSURE jobs leave men and women desperate to work off all the adrenalin at the end of the day. What more effective than a steamy affair?
  5. JUST being close to workmates of the opposite sex tends to boost attraction. Standing next to each other in the canteen queue can be a pretty good recipe for an affair.
  6. BOREDOM sets a woman's mind wandering and she's tempted to wile away a tedious hour flirting with the hunk from sales. An fling soon follows.
  7. FORBIDDEN love is exciting. So an affair with a colleague is enticing, especially if you know the boss would disapprove.
  8. MARRIED people land in affairs at work because it's the only place they face temptation. Outside they perhaps only meet with their spouse in tow.
  9. WORKLOAD may mean you spend more time with a workmate than your partner. Teamwork makes you dangerously closer.
  10. IT COULD even be true love. Working with someone lets you see faults as well as strengths. Respect may lead to something longer lasting than a quick snog.

TEN Fascinating facts about
PICKING UP WAGES OF SIN
 
  1. ONE in three women (29 per cent) aged 20 - 30 say they have met a lover at work.
  2. NEARLY a quarter (24 per cent) of all women have found a boyfriend in the office.
  3. TWELVE per cent of women met their one and only lover at work and 21 per cent even met their future husband or partner there.
  4. THREE per cent of women who have only had one lover admit they would quite like a fling with a colleague.
  5. WOMEN who have had the most partners - 11 or more - have found a partner in their workplace. and 44 per cent say they have met a mate this way.
  6. SEXUALLY experienced women are also more likely to have a casual fling at work. The survey shows that 35 per cent of those who've had at least 11 lovers would consider it.
  7. FORTY-ONE per cent of women who say they have met a partner at work also admit to having an affair.
  8. ONLY eight per cent of all women say they would have a fling at work, but four per cent of married women say they would.
  9. YOUNGER women are most likely to have an office affair - 13 per cent of under 30s would.
  10. OLDER women tend to be wary of romance in the workplace. Only one in 20 of those aged 41 - 50 admit they would consider a tryst there..

TEN Top LOVE FANTASIES.
 
  1. MAKING love to a film star - 43 per cent of women enjoy this fantasy. Brad Pitt and George Clooney are the most popular.
  2. MAKING love in a public place - like Joely Richardson and Sean Bean in Lady Chatterley's Lover.
  3. DRESSING up in a nurses uniform. Six in 10 women aged 20 - 30 find this a turn-on.
  4. SEX with a married friend.
  5. MAKING love to a stranger - 42 per cent of women aged 31 - 40 have this fantasy and TV's Ally McBeal put it into practice.
  6. GROUP sex - as enjoyed by Tom Cruises in Eyes Wide Shut.
  7. MAKING love while other people watch.
  8. DRESSING up in PVC gear. Two in 10 women who've had 11 partners enjoy fetishes.
  9. MAKING love in the sea.
  10. WATCHING your partner make love to someone else.

TEN REASONS we FANTASISE
  1. PARTNER is away or sex isn't available.
  2. FOR pleasure - to enjoy again a sexual episode we've had, or hope to enjoy.
  3. TO ENACT scenarios that are impossible - like making love to a favourite film star.
  4. TO DAYDREAM about what would be too risky in reality - group sex.
  5. OR DANGEROUS - making love on a mountain top.
  6. ESCAPISM - allowing us to take a break from our daily life.
  7. SAFETY valve - to cope with our frustrations.
  8. PLAYING out what might hurt others - like sex with a pal's partner.
  9. TO PLAY act - pretend to be somebody we're not.
  10. ADDING romance or spice to our lives.
Check out what your fantasy says about you on the Your Fantasy Page.

SEX FACTS
  • Four out of five women in their 20 think they are more promiscuous than those of 20 years ago.
  • Women in their 30s are likelier to sleep with men on a first date than those in their 20s.
  • Women in their 40s are more likely to find erotic films arousing than youngsters.
  • Women in a relationship are less likely to fantasise than bachelor girls.
  • 97 per cent of women between 20 and 50 believe attitudes towards sex are far more relaxed than 20 years ago.
  • Only a tiny percentage of women remain virgins until they get married.
  • Three quarters of women between 20 and 30 have had multiple sexual partners.
  • Nearly a quarter of 20 to 30-year-olds revealed they had cheated on a partner.
  • Only 11 per cent of women dissapproved of a lesbian relationship.
  • 80 per cent of women under 30 now take a leading role in seducing partners.
  • 56 per cent of betrayed women have had 11 or more partners themselves.
  • 14 per cent of women who say their love life is more fulfilling have had affairs.
  • NINE per cent of women who've only had one lover discovered he'd cheated.

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