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For the week of January 16 - January 22, 2000

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Chester Clardy

Chester Orville Clardy is missed by many - his family, his friends and even Missy, his little black puppy.

"She misses him a lot," his daughterLisa Miles said. "He spoiled her to death."

Mr. Clardy of Columbia died Thursday, Dec. 23, 1999, at Truman Veterans Hospital. He was 71.

Mr. Clardy was a modest man.

He was a hero from the Korean War but "he never liked to dwell about it" said another daughter, Victoria Madrigal.

"He gave me his plaque," she said.

Mr. Clardy loved fishing and he loved to travel. To go to Rockport, Texas was what he loved the most. "That was his favorite fishing place," Miles said.

When Mr. Clardy retired, he and his wife, Sadie, sold their house and bought a mobile home to finally go travelling. Every winter they went to the southern states.

Even though he loved to meet interesting people when he travelled, his family was always close and very important to him. He never forgot to bring souvenirs from his trips.

"He was a very good man," Madrigal said. "He always tried to help you."

Mr. Clardy was born Nov. 23, 1928 in New Florence, Mo., to Dewy and Helen Horton Clardy.

He married Sadie Whitworth Miles on Nov. 15, 1975 in Bellflower, MO.

For more than 20 years, Mr. Clardy worked at Voss Spray Paint in St. Louis. He was spectacular at his work and a wonderful painter, Madrigal said. He enjoyed his job because it let him meet people, Miles said.

Mr. Clardy is survived by his wife, Sadie E. Clardy of Columbia; two sons, Michael Clardy of Londell, Mo., and Manley Miles of Bellflower, Mo.; five daughters Victoria Madrigal and Millie Ann Wade, both of Montgomery City, Mo., Patty Ann Clardy of St. Louis, Elizabeth Forbis and Lisa Miles, both of Columbia; and several grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

There will be no services held, at his request. Miles said he wants his ashes to be spread over the bay in Rockport.

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Dr. Sydney Evans Jaynes


By Jose Alfredo Flores

Dr. Sydney Evans Jaynes helped people in Columbia smile for 38 years. The orthodontist, former president of the Columbia Dental Association and Boy Scout volunteer did more than just put braces on teeth. He helped his patients and his community.

"He had a vibrant personality and always had a smile on his face," said his wife, Irene.

Dr. Jaynes of Columbia died Wednesday, Jan. 19, 2000 at the Lenoir Health Care Center. He was 85.

"He was a good father and a good businessman," said Don Jaynes, one of three surviving children. "He got along with people very well, and in my judgment he was well-respected as a professional person and just as a person."

In 1949, Dr. Jaynes started his own practice in Columbia; by 1975, his son, Phillip, joined. After Dr. Jaynes retired, his son continued the practice.

Dr. Jaynes was born Sept. 21, 1914 in Twisp, Wash. to Clinton B. and Louella Johnson Jaynes. He did his undergraduate studies at MU and at the University of Louisville. He received his doctoral degree at the Louisville Dental School. Dr. Jaynes studied orthodontics at Washington University's Dental School, where he became the school's first student to receive a degree in orthodontics.

In addition to his medical practice, Dr. Jaynes was active in the Boy Scouts of America for 12 years and received the Silver Beaver Award, the highest scouting award given for adult volunteer leadership.

He served as an orthodontic consultant to Stephens College and the Missouri Crippled Childrens Service as well as chairman of the Governor's Commission on the Dental Treatment of the Handicapped and Crippled Children.

One memory that stands out in Don Jaynes' mind was the time his father placed braces on a beagle. "It was a show dog, but its teeth weren't quite right so dad fixed them up," he said.

Services, conducted by the Rev. Neal Lassinger, will be at 2:30 p.m. today in a graveside ceremony at New Florence Cemetery. A memorial service, conducted by Dr. Rhymes Moncure, will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday at Missouri United Methodist Church, 201 S. Ninth St. There will be no visitation.

Dr. Jaynes is survived by his wife, Irene; two sons, Donald Jaynes of Bloomington, Ill, and Philip Jaynes of Columbia; one daughter, Julie Jaynes-Snider of Columbia; one brother, Warren Jaynes of Carthage; and six grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

A son died earlier.

Memorials may be sent to either the Missouri Symphony Society, P.O. Box 1121 Columbia, MO 65205 or to Missouri United Methodist Church, 201 S. Ninth St. Columbia, MO 65201.

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Mildred Chrisman

Mildred Frances Chrisman of Columbia died Monday, Jan. 17, 2000. She was 81.

Mrs. Chrisman was a loyal Missouri basketball fan. She enjoyed reading magazines, spending time with her grandchildren, knitting and crocheting. Her spaghetti recipe was a family prize.

Mrs. Chrisman was born June 20, 1918, in Hartsburg to Frank and Margaret Dykeman Bledsoe. She lived most of her life in Columbia.

Mrs. Chrisman married Charles Chrisman in 1938. She and her husband owned and operated Reliable Laundry and Clean Coverall in Columbia. She was a member of Eastern Star and Ladies Auxiliary VFW, and she was also involved in the Senior Lunch Program at the Senior Center.

In her younger days, Mrs. Chrisman showed horses at the Boone County Fairground and was a member of the American Saddle Horse Association. Mrs. Chrisman was once employed at the Brown Shoe Factory and later at Lorna's Limited in the Biscayne Mall.

Visitation for Mrs. Chrisman will be from 6 to 8 p.m. today at Memorial Funeral Home, 1217 Business Loop 70 W. Services, conducted by the Rev. Charles A. Parker, will be held at 10 a.m. Friday at Memorial Funeral Home Chapel.

Mrs. Chrisman is survived by one son, Gregory Chrisman of St. Louis; one daughter, Rebecca Calcote of Columbia; one sister, Merle White of Columbia; and two grandsons.

Her husband, three brothers and one sister died earlier.

Memorials may be sent to the charity of the donor's choice.

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Eleanor J. Watt

Eleanor J. Watt of Columbia died Wednesday, Jan. 19, 2000, at University Hospital and Clinics. She was 86.

Mrs. Watt was born Sept. 30, 1913 in New York City. She married John Wilson Watt in New York on June 14, 1940.

Visitation for Mrs. Watt will be from 3 to 6 p.m. Friday at Memorial Funeral Home, 1217 Business Loop 70 W. Services will not be held. She will be buried at Calvary Cemetery in Steger, Ill.

Mrs. Watt is survived by her son, J. Wilson Watt of Columbia; and her sister, Elizabeth Barry of New York.

Her parents and husband died earlier.

Because of her son's involvement in the Women's Domestic Violence Shelter of Columbia, memorials may be sent to The Shelter at P.O. Box 1367, Columbia, Mo., 65205.

Pat Glasier, program director for The Shelter, is very grateful for the contributions made on Mrs. Watt's behalf.

"Mrs. Watt's son, J. Wilson, is very active here," Glasier said. "If her son is any reflection of her, she was a wonderful woman."

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Vance Heflin

Ben Vance, Vance Heflin's stepson, said it was his stepfather's name that started the relationship between his mother and his stepfather in 1977. "When they met, that conversation started the whole thing," Ben Vance said.

Sherry Vance and Vance Heflin were initially attracted to each other on account of their names - Vance was his first name and her last name. It was the beginning of a friendship that lasted more than 20 years and a marriage that lasted more than 10 years.

Stuart Vance Heflin, of Rolla, formerly of Columbia, died Saturday, Jan. 15, 2000, in St. Louis. Mr. Heflin was 47. He died from complications of a brief illness.

Mr. Heflin was born to Betty Heflin and former state Sen. Clarence Heflin on Nov. 21, 1952, in Independence. He attended Truman High School in Independence, and received a photojournalism degree in 1976 from the University of Missouri School of Journalism.

"He loved photography, any kind of photography. He loved bluegrass music, camping, fly-fishing and being outdoors," Ben Vance said.

Mr. Heflin was an experienced journalist. He worked for several Missouri radio stations and newspapers, including both of Columbia's daily newspapers, and for Black Star, a photo service in New York.

"Vance was a good editor," Jim Robertson, who worked with Mr. Heflin at the Columbia Daily Tribune in the mid-1980s, said. "The thing that strikes me most about Vance, though, is how he could work with people."

Many people admired Mr. Heflin for his warmth toward people.

"There wasn't a more generous person in the world," John Robinson, a close friend of Mr. Heflin, said. "You couldn't pack more life into 47 years than he did."

After working as a journalist, Mr.Heflin went on to become a freelance photojournalist and videographer. His television work included National Geographic, America's Most Wanted, In Search of the Great Grayback, and the Great Chefs of Europe.

Ben Vance, who lives in Chicago, said Mr. Heflin was a fantastic cook. "When I came back to visit, it's one of the things I looked forward to," he said.

Mr. Heflin also worked in the political arena. He was a media adviser to Lt. Gov. Roger Wilson and Sen. Joe Maxwell. He also worked for the Democratic State Committee in Jefferson City during the mid 1980s.

Services will be held at 10 a.m. today at Null & Son Funeral Home in Rolla.

Mr. Heflin is survived by his parents; his wife, Sherry Vance of Rolla; one son, Jake Heflin of Rolla; one stepson, Ben Vance of Chicago; two brothers, Randy Heflin of Kansas City and Lance Heflin of Bethesda, Md.; one sister, Linda Hobbs of Kansas City; and several nephews and nieces.

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Homer L'Hote

Homer Jacob L'Hote of Columbia died Saturday, Jan. 15, 2000, at Columbia Manor. He was 88.

Mr. L'Hote spent 43 years working at the College of Agriculture at MU, serving as assistant dean for several years.

"He was a wonderful gardener, and he planted many seeds in his life. He was the best mentor I've ever had," said granddaughter Paula Montemurro

Family and friends will remember Mr. L'Hote for his sense of humor.

Mr. L'Hote was born Nov. 6, 1911, in Belgique, Mo. to John and Lillian Steyns L'Hote. He graduated in 1929 as valedictorian from his high school in Perryville. He graduated from the University of Missouri in 1937 with a bachelor's degree in agriculture and later earned a master's degree in agricultural economics in 1940.

On Dec. 28, 1937, he married Floy Earlene Patton in Aurora, Mo.

Mr. L'Hote was International Treasurer for Gamma Sigma Delta, an agricultural honor society, from 1944 until 1982. He was also a State Deputy for the Knights of Columbus.

Visitation for Mr. L'Hote will be from 5 to 7 p.m. today at Memorial Funeral Home, 1217 Business Loop 70 W. There will also be a Rosary Service at 7 p.m. Services, conducted by the Most Rev. Michael F. McAuliffe, will be at 10 a.m. Thursday at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, 1115 Locust St. Mr. L'Hote will be buried in Memorial Park Cemetery.

Mr. L'Hote is survived by his son, Lawrence L'Hote of Columbia; three daughters, Linda L'Hote of Columbia, Lynette Burgess of Texas, and Lisa L'Hote of Washington; and two sisters, Rita Kiefer of Perryville and Leona Grossi of Nevada. He is also survived by nine grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.

His wife, one son, four sisters and one brother died earlier.

Memorials may be sent to the College of Agriculture, Food and Natural Resources, Office of the Dean, 26-9 Agriculture Building, University of Missouri-Columbia, Columbia, Mo. 65211.

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Jeanette E. Bozarth

Jeanette E. Bozarth of Columbia, the last surviving charter member at Wilkes Boulevard United Methodist Church, died Friday, Jan. 14, 2000, at Lenoir Health Care Center. She was 95.

Mrs. Bozarth was born on April 1, 1904 in Boone County to Marvin and Mirtie Campbell Jacobs.

She married James Knox Bozarth on March 8, 1924. Her husband died one day before their 61st anniversary, on March 7, 1985.

Mrs. Bozarth was a homemaker and a mother of three daughters and a son. She had 11 grandchildren.

Mrs. Bozarth is survived by her son, James Knox Bozarth of Bolivar; three daughters, Patsy Ruth Corley of Columbia, Hida Moore of Columbia, and Joyce Smith of Alexandria, Va.; two brothers, Jerry Jacobs of Palm Springs, Calif. and Willis Jacobs of Brown Station; two sisters, Arlon Kallenbach of Doniphan and Naomi Smith of Columbia; 11 grandchildren, 15 great-grandchildren and one great-great grandchild.

Visitation for Mrs. Bozarth will be at 1 p.m., Tuesday at Parker Funeral Service, 22 N. Tenth St. Services will be at 2 p.m. at Parker Funeral Service.

Memorials may be given to Camp Wonderland, Rocky Mount, MO, 65072

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Robert W. Brink

Robert Walter Brink died Sunday, Jan. 16, 2000, at Moberly Regional Hospital. He was 83.

Mr. Brink owned and operated Brink Truck Lines in Sturgeon for almost 35 years, retiring in 1972. He then devoted his time to working on his farm north of Sturgeon.

Mr. Brink was born April 20, 1916, in Boone County to Andrew and Maggie Allinger Brink.

He was a member of the Locust Grove Baptist Church, south of Sturgeon.-

Visitation for Mr. Brink was held Monday at the Meador and Son Funeral Home in Sturgeon. Services will be at 2 p.m. today at Meador and Son Chapel, at Ogden and Davis Streets. Mr. Brink will be buried in the Mt. Horeb Cemetery in Sturgeon.

Mr. Brink is survived by his wife, LaVonne Jennings; two sons, Delmar Brink and Larry Brink both of Sturgeon; one brother, George Brink of Raytown; two grandchildren, Nicole Brink of Columbia, and Darren Brink of Republic; four great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews.

Memorials may be sent to the Sturgeon United Methodist Church, 101 East Smith Street, Sturgeon, Mo. 65284.

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Redford Michael Perrine

Redford Michael Perrine will be remembered for his artistic talent, his kindness and his contagious happiness.

"He was one of the best people we had the privilege of knowing," said Corey Cottrell, a manager at Shakespeare's Pizza, where Mr. Perrine worked. "He literally always had a smile on his face. You just couldn't help but be in a good mood when you were around him."

Mr. Perrine died Friday, Jan. 14, 2000, at St. Joseph Hospital in Kansas City. He was 22. He and his friend Matthew McGilley died in a car crash.

"Everybody feels a loss no matter how long they've known them," said Missy Miller, an employee at Shakespeare's Pizza, speaking of both Mr. Perrine and Mr. McGilley. "We lost family."

Mr. Perrine was born July 22, 1977, in St. Charles, Mo., to Redford A. and Catherine Perrine. He went to St. Joseph School in Cottleville, Mo., and St. Dominic High School in O'Fallon, Mo. He graduated from MU in December 1999, with a bachelor's degree in Fine Arts.

Camille Dawson, a manager at Shakespeare's Pizza, remembers when Mr. Perrine piled 50 friends and co-workers on a school bus to go to Oktoberfest.

"When you were around him, it was always fun," she said. "He was always smiling."

Sunday night, Shakespeare's Pizza employees met to share stories and pictures of Mr. Perrine and Mr. McGilley. Kurt Mirtsching, general manager of Shakespeare's Pizza, planned the memorial gathering and closed the restaurant early so all the employees could attend.

Those who knew Mr. Perrine said his compassion and his keen sense of humor made it hard for anyone to stay upset when he was around.

"Every time you were in a bad mood, he came walking up with a big grin on his face, and you couldn't help but start grinning yourself," said Kate David of Shakespeare's Pizza. "He was never without that grin."

Cottrell said, "All I see in my head is Redford smiling, and I hear him laughing."

Mr. Perrine enjoyed painting, photography and sculpting.

"He was a very creative young man," said his father, Redford A. Perrine. "He was the most wonderful son in the world. I'm so proud of him."

Professors from the Art Department at MU recognized Mr. Perrine's remarkable artistic ability.

"He was a very talented young man with a lot of potential," Jerry Berneche, who taught Mr. Perrine last semester, said. "He turned in some very fine work."

William Hawk, one of Mr. Perrine's art professors, remembered Mr. Perrine's caring and generous attitude toward others.

"He was an outstanding person," Hawk said. "Some artists have a temperamental side. I never saw any evidence of that in him. He was always congenial. It was a pleasure for me to have a student like him."

Visitation will be from 3 to 9 p.m. today at the New Baue Funeral and Memorial Center, I-70 and Cave Springs, 3950 West Clay, St. Charles, Mo., 63301.

Services will be at 11 a.m. Tuesday at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 1355 Motherhead Road, Cottleville, Mo. Burial will be at St. Philipine Ducene Catholic Cemetery, St. Charles.

Mr. Perrine is survived by his parents; his brother, Ron Crown-Perrine of Atlanta, Ga.; his sister, Catherine Mary Perrine of St. Charles; and his grandparents, John and Kay Ward of Pensacola, Fla.

Mr. Perrine's paternal grandparents died earlier.

Memorials may be sent to the New Baue Funeral and Memorial Center on behalf of St. Dominic High School or St. Joseph's-Cottleville Catholic Church and/or Masses.

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Theo Ellen Estes

Columbia native Theo Ellen Estes lived humbly. As a nurse at Ellis Fischel Cancer Center, she tended to the sick, helped them through their ordeal and then went home to her family.

Mrs. Estes died Wednesday, Jan. 12, 2000, at Christian Hospital Northeast in St. Louis. She was 91.

Despite contracting cancer and undergoing surgery and treatment, Mrs. Estes still aided the sick when she could.

Her courage could have gone unnoticed, had it not grounded respect and generosity in the lives of her children.

"I admired her and respected her more than any woman I had ever known," said daughter-in-law Melda Estes. "She was the matriarch of our family, the perfect role model."

"Everyone in our family admired her, from her children, to grandchildren to great-grandchildren," said Mrs. Estes' daughter, Patricia Lane of Florissant.

That admiration blossomed and enriched the lives of all her offspring. Her daughters, Lane and Wanda Gerdemann, also became nurses, as is Melda Estes. Mrs. Estes' son, A. Thomas Estes Jr., is a doctor.

Mrs. Estes loved to sing and shared that passion with her family. "My mother really appreciated the talents in music, dancing and singing that passed through the generations in all our homes," said Lane.

But most of all, the woman lovingly called "Mimmie" by her grandchildren and great-grandchildren was venerated for her benevolent dignity.

In an ode given at Mrs. Estes' 90th birthday party, Melda Estes described her as "graceful, loving, regal and wise."

Her strength shone most brightly during her bout with cancer.

"She overcame a lot of things normal people would not have survived. Even her doctors were amazed," said Lane.

While still recovering, she volunteered her time as a nurse, helping others who were receiving the same treatment for cancer. "She dealt with it, and she helped others deal with it," Lane added.

Mrs. Estes was born Jan. 22, 1908, in Columbia to Stephen and Sally Barnes Ballew. She graduated from Hickman High School and married Archie T. Estes Sr. in Columbia in April 1927.

She worked as an LPN at Ellis Fischel Cancer Center for 10 years.

Visitation for Mrs. Estes will be from 3 to 6 p.m. today at Parker Funeral Service, at 22 N. Tenth St. Services, conducted by the Rev. Kenneth Watson, will be held at the same location at 11:30 a.m. Monday. Mrs. Estes will be buried at Columbia Cemetery.

Mrs. Estes is survived by her son, A. Thomas Estes Jr. of Hurst, Texas; two daughters, Patricia of Florissant and Wanda of Viburnum; five grandchildren and seven great- grandchildren.

Her husband, parents, two brothers and three sisters died earlier.

Memorials may be sent to the Cancer Research Center, 3501 Berrywood Dr., Columbia, Mo. 65201.

--John Sullivan

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Marvin Stewart

Marvin Lewis Stewart of Columbia died Tuesday, Jan. 11, 2000, at Columbia Regional Hospital. He was 81.

Mr. Stewart was born April 9, 1918, in St. Louis to Oscar and Edna Stewart. He served in World War II with the U.S. Army and was a member of the International Organization of Insulators and Asbestos Workers in St. Louis.

Services and visitation for Mr. Stewart have not yet been scheduled.

He is survived by his wife, Veronica June Donnellan Stewart of Columbia; one daughter, Kay Stewart of Columbia; one son, Michael Stewart of Tempe, Ariz.; and one sister, Louise Phillips of St. Louis.

One sister died earlier.

Memorials may be sent to The Nature Conservancy, 2800 S. Brentwood Blvd., St. Louis, Mo. 63144.

- Devon Hammes

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Beatrice Bowie

Beatrice Dubois Bowie died Friday, Jan. 14, 2000, at Lenoir Health Care Center. She was 86.

Mrs. Bowie was born Jan. 6, 1914, in Niagara Falls, N.Y., to Thomas Randall and Beatrice Ramsey Dubois. She married Thomas Somervelle on April 10, 1937.

Mrs. Bowie was a distinguished seamstress, having received her education in the trade in Garshes, France, in 1932. She also worked as a secretary and a medical receptionist.

Mrs. Bowie presided at the Newark Montclair Junior League from 1953 to 1954 in New Jersey. While living there, she was a docent at the Montclair Historical Society and a board member of the Florence Crittendon Home. As a volunteer, Mrs. Bowie participated in the Stepping Stone and the altar guild at St. James Episcopal Church.

Mrs. Bowie is survived by her daughter, Lynne Dillingham of Columbia; and two grandchildren, Rebecca Anne Dillingham of Charlottesville, Va., and Randall Forcey Dillingham of Munich, Germany.

Her husband died earlier.

Services will be held in Calvary Episcopal Church Memorial

Garden, 123 S. Ninth St., in May.

Memorials may be sent to Alzheimer's Association of Mid-Missouri, 1121 Business Loop 70 E., Columbia, Mo. 65201.

- Xenia Polska

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Glenn Cadwell

Glenn Cadwell, who spent most of his life as a minister preaching across the Midwest, died Thursday, Jan. 13, 2000, at Lenoir Health Care Center. He was 83.

Last May he celebrated his 60th year as a minister. He worked in numerous churches including the Rock Bridge Christian Church.

The Rev. John Yonker said Mr. Cadwell especially loved singing in the choir, education and the church, but what he loved most was his wife and family.

"His passion was for his wife," Yonker said. "He'd been married for over 59 years."

Mr. Cadwell was born on July 24, 1916, in Valley Center, Kan., to Frank Corydon and Mabel Albertson Cadwell. When he was 23 he married Lena Thomas in Oklahoma. He attended school in Enid, Okla., for six years and also Southeastern State in Durant, Okla. He occasionally worked as a substitute teacher as well as for the Oklahoma Christian Women's Society, and was a member of the Kiwanis, Toastmasters, and Masons clubs.

Services, conducted by the Rev. John Yonker, will be held at 2 p.m. Monday at Graveside-Memorial Park Cemetery.

He is survived by his wife, Lena Cadwell of Columbia; his daughter, Glynda Sue Nourse of Portland, Maine; and his brother, Gene Cadwell of Laramie, Wyo.

- Gieson Cacho

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Michael Keefer

G. Michael Keefer of Columbia died Wednesday, Jan. 12, 2000, at his home. He was 59.

Mr. Keefer was born Sept. 16, 1940, in Algona, Iowa, to Gilbert and Helen Keefer.

He served with the U.S. Army Special Forces, was active in the Cancer Support Group at Boone Hospital Center, volunteered with Services for Independent Living and completed training for hospice work.

There will be a private family service at a later time.

Mr. Keefer is survived by four sons: Doug Keefer of Ashville, N.C., Scott Keefer of Falls Church, V.A., and Matt and Tim Keefer, both of Columbia; and one grandchild.

His parents, one daughter and one sister died earlier.

- Devon Hammes

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Matthew McGilley

Whether it was new friends or animals, Matthew McGilley was always taking home lost things. When he was 14, he found a thin black cat in a St. Louis church and brought it home to his mother, Kathryn McGilley.

"The cat had been out in the cold," said his father, Mark McGilley. "It was thin and looked like it didn't belong to anybody."

Mark McGilley said his son was also known for taking in friends who had nowhere to go.

Matthew Christian McGilley of Leawood, Kan., died Friday, Jan. 14, 2000, at Overland Park Medical Center from injuries in a car accident. He was 23.

Mr. McGilley found a home for himself in Columbia.

"Columbia was his life," Mark McGilley said. "Columbia meant so much to Matt that he would have probably gone to graduate school there and stayed. He just liked the campus life and small town and he had all his friends. He felt comfortable there and enjoyed it."

While in Columbia, he worked a year for Shakespeare's Pizza and two years at Lee Street Market.

Besides his care for others, Mr. McGilley also had a love for nature. Before he died, Mr. McGilley and twelve friends hiked and camped in Mexico for two weeks. He recently came back and spent time with his father and mother before the accident.

Mr. McGilley was born on Jan. 3, 1977, in Kansas City and lived there most of his life. He graduated from Rockhurst High School in 1995 and continued his education at MU, graduating last month with a degree in psychology. At his high school, Mr. McGilley founded the lacrosse team where he played midfield.

"He was a good player and received a varsity letter as a freshman," Mark McGilley said.

He is survived by his parents, Mark McGilley and Kathryn McGilley of Leawood, Kan.; brothers, M. Patrick McGilley and Peter McGilley of Leawood; sister, Kathleen McGilley of Leawood; parental grandfather, James McGilley Jr. of Kansas City; and his maternal grandmother, Caroline Ann Bye of Duluth, Minn.

Visitations will be held from 4 to 6 p.m. today at McGilley Memorial Chapel, 12301 State Line Road, Kansas City, with a wake at 5:30 p.m. Mr. McGilley's funeral will be held at 10 a.m. on Monday at Church of the Nativity, 3800 W. 199th St., Shawnee, Kan., conducted by Father Al Rockers.

Memorials may be sent to Rockhurst High School Fund In Memory of Matthew McGilley, 9301 State Line Road, Kansas City, Mo. 64114.

- Gieson Cacho

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