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Father Knows Best A personal experience with God answering a prayer in HIS time. by Melody Warren Roses Of Sharon 4 years ago this last November, my younger sister Mary Joe died of cancer. This was her second trip around with the dreaded disease. In September of that year she was informed that it had progressed into most of her body including her brain. The Dr. told her that she would leave us in the Spring but that she would be with us at Christmas. She lived on the East coast and I live on the west coast. That year I had made several trips back east to be with her as much as possible but now my finances were running very low. We were very close and we could talk about everything so I asked her if she wanted me to come home for Christmas or wait until Spring. Her comment was that she wanted me to come home for Christmas as it wouldn't do her or me any good to come home after she had died and she wanted to spend her last Christmas with me. However she went into hospice in the middle of October and we were informed that she would go at any time. As I was not quite prepared financially to make the trip again so soon I did some hard praying. The next day I got a call from the Theater that I sometimes worked for either in the costuming department or on their advertising campaigns. They had a campaign coming up and asked if I would be able to work. Knowing that it was a 6 week campaign and that I probably couldn't be there through it all something told me to take the job anyway. The first night at work the campaign manager asked each of us why we had decided to do the campaign. He said he was interested in what motivated us. Believe me - in advertising you need motivation because you can't promote something effectively you don't believe in. When it was my turn I simply told him the truth about why I was there and that I needed the money to get home and the reason I needed to get there. As it was I was racing the clock and most likely wouldn't get there before my sister died anyway. But I had to try. Later that evening while I was working the manger came up to me and told me before I left work that night to please stop by his desk. I said, "Okay!" Just before leaving I went to his desk and he presented me with a check for $900. He had called the airline and booked a flight for me back home. The only problem was that he could not get me on a flight before the 2 weeks advance notice. And he couldn't get me bereavement unless my sister had already died. The next day I called my local travel agent as I knew her very well. I booked all my previous flights the year before with her and she knew about my sister. I paid for the ticket but Pepper (the agent) called the airline every day trying to get them to change the rules for me. They would not budge. In the meantime, I kept praying, but to be perfectly honest, my hopes were dashed. I was thankful each day that my sister was still alive, but so sure that I would never see her again, and I would not be able to keep my promise to her to be with her BEFORE she died. Even though I had promised to come home for Christmas to be with her it would be the same thing now that she would not be with us then. Then on the 11th day Pepper called me and told me she had finally got through to the people at the airline and that I needed get to the airport right away - I was booked on the next flight out. I arrived at the airport in Connecticut at 1:00 pm and my mother drove me right to the hospital. I was there for 10 hours with my sister and my mother then told me that she was going to take me back to the house because I needed rest. I had worked the day before and had been on a plane for 8 hours. I had had no sleep. It was 11:00 pm. Suddenly this urge to pray with my sister came over me. My sister was unsaved - in case I hadn't mentioned it. I took my sisters hand and told her that I was going to pray with her and that I knew that she could not say the prayer out loud so it was okay to say it from her heart. I then said the sinner's prayer of salvation. As soon as I was finished I felt my sister squeeze my hand and I knew she knew what was going on. At that moment I looked up and her eyes were opened and she was smiling at me. I told her that it was okay and that we loved her very much, but it was ok if she wanted to go home now. 15 minutes later my sister left this world and I am positive that she went to be with the Lord. If I had gone home to be with her when "I" wanted to, it would have been to soon and if I had to wait the full 2 weeks it would have been too late. At the exact moment that it was necessary the Lord opened all the doors and no one else could have been responsible but God. By the way - the airline even gave me bereavement and refunded a small portion of the plane fare. This is what I mean by - When there is silence and it seems that God has forsaken you he is waiting to answer your prayer at HIS will and in HIS time for He knows when it is best and what is best for you. I thank God for that everyday and everytime I think of my sister. Do I ever forget it? To be honest I do for just a little while when everything seems to be in turmoil but it is like this little light goes off and the Lord is reminding me that HE knows what is best. Melody Warren's testimony is an extremely personal one and should you wish to place it at your website to inspire others, please write me so that I may contact her to seek her permission or put you directly in touch with her. Thank you for your respect and consideration. The Annchor | 15 Prayers | Crucifixion | Devotions | John 3:16 | The Blessed | Memorial Pan-A-Vision | AnnDangered | Panpals | Panasia | PanIsland | Pantasy and Legends Pan, Peter and Ann | Awards | My Awards | AnnHancer | Home
Father Knows Best
A personal experience with God answering a prayer in HIS time.
by Melody Warren Roses Of Sharon
4 years ago this last November, my younger sister Mary Joe died of cancer. This was her second trip around with the dreaded disease. In September of that year she was informed that it had progressed into most of her body including her brain. The Dr. told her that she would leave us in the Spring but that she would be with us at Christmas.
She lived on the East coast and I live on the west coast. That year I had made several trips back east to be with her as much as possible but now my finances were running very low.
We were very close and we could talk about everything so I asked her if she wanted me to come home for Christmas or wait until Spring. Her comment was that she wanted me to come home for Christmas as it wouldn't do her or me any good to come home after she had died and she wanted to spend her last Christmas with me. However she went into hospice in the middle of October and we were informed that she would go at any time.
As I was not quite prepared financially to make the trip again so soon I did some hard praying. The next day I got a call from the Theater that I sometimes worked for either in the costuming department or on their advertising campaigns. They had a campaign coming up and asked if I would be able to work.
Knowing that it was a 6 week campaign and that I probably couldn't be there through it all something told me to take the job anyway. The first night at work the campaign manager asked each of us why we had decided to do the campaign. He said he was interested in what motivated us. Believe me - in advertising you need motivation because you can't promote something effectively you don't believe in.
When it was my turn I simply told him the truth about why I was there and that I needed the money to get home and the reason I needed to get there. As it was I was racing the clock and most likely wouldn't get there before my sister died anyway. But I had to try.
Later that evening while I was working the manger came up to me and told me before I left work that night to please stop by his desk. I said, "Okay!"
Just before leaving I went to his desk and he presented me with a check for $900. He had called the airline and booked a flight for me back home. The only problem was that he could not get me on a flight before the 2 weeks advance notice. And he couldn't get me bereavement unless my sister had already died.
The next day I called my local travel agent as I knew her very well. I booked all my previous flights the year before with her and she knew about my sister. I paid for the ticket but Pepper (the agent) called the airline every day trying to get them to change the rules for me. They would not budge.
In the meantime, I kept praying, but to be perfectly honest, my hopes were dashed. I was thankful each day that my sister was still alive, but so sure that I would never see her again, and I would not be able to keep my promise to her to be with her BEFORE she died. Even though I had promised to come home for Christmas to be with her it would be the same thing now that she would not be with us then.
Then on the 11th day Pepper called me and told me she had finally got through to the people at the airline and that I needed get to the airport right away - I was booked on the next flight out.
I arrived at the airport in Connecticut at 1:00 pm and my mother drove me right to the hospital. I was there for 10 hours with my sister and my mother then told me that she was going to take me back to the house because I needed rest. I had worked the day before and had been on a plane for 8 hours. I had had no sleep. It was 11:00 pm. Suddenly this urge to pray with my sister came over me.
My sister was unsaved - in case I hadn't mentioned it. I took my sisters hand and told her that I was going to pray with her and that I knew that she could not say the prayer out loud so it was okay to say it from her heart. I then said the sinner's prayer of salvation. As soon as I was finished I felt my sister squeeze my hand and I knew she knew what was going on. At that moment I looked up and her eyes were opened and she was smiling at me. I told her that it was okay and that we loved her very much, but it was ok if she wanted to go home now.
15 minutes later my sister left this world and I am positive that she went to be with the Lord.
If I had gone home to be with her when "I" wanted to, it would have been to soon and if I had to wait the full 2 weeks it would have been too late. At the exact moment that it was necessary the Lord opened all the doors and no one else could have been responsible but God. By the way - the airline even gave me bereavement and refunded a small portion of the plane fare.
This is what I mean by - When there is silence and it seems that God has forsaken you he is waiting to answer your prayer at HIS will and in HIS time for He knows when it is best and what is best for you.
I thank God for that everyday and everytime I think of my sister.
Do I ever forget it? To be honest I do for just a little while when everything seems to be in turmoil but it is like this little light goes off and the Lord is reminding me that HE knows what is best.
Melody Warren's testimony is an extremely personal one and should you wish to place it at your website to inspire others, please write me so that I may contact her to seek her permission or put you directly in touch with her. Thank you for your respect and consideration.
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