Some girls really enjoy being single and free-playing the field, having fun with friends and getting in plenty of private time too. If that's you, and you're just not ready for a commitment, great. But if you go around thinking no guy is worthy of you, you might be covering your own insecurities. By boyfriend-hopping(or turn up your nose at everyone who expresses intrest), you prove that you're attractive and can "get" guys. But you might be afraid to stay with anyone because you think once he gets to know you, he won't stick around. "Inside you feel like you're not good enough to be loved," says Kenney. Figure out why you hide what's inside-and then work on your self-esteem.
If you bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend, try taking yourself out of the dating game for a while and focus on other relationships, like those with your friends and family-the people who support you and make you feel good about yourself. If you avoid dating entirely, take a deep breath and give a guy a chance-you may find it easier to open up than you thought. Remember, having high standards is cool, but if you write people off before you get to know them(or let them get to know you), you're cheating yourself.
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