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You can kiss and tell, without saying a word, what someone's personality is- including your own. The decision to kiss may not be spontaneous, but once it begins, our response becomes an automatic, unconscious act. The way you kiss may not only show what kind of kisser you are, but what kind of person is really behind your kisser. So watch out!
Let's hope you're kissing with your eyes closed because you're an incurable romantic and not because your partner is grotesque! Keeping your eyes shut allows you to become totally involved with your fantasies- but there is one catch. Since you are easy prey for romantic illusion, it follows that you can be easily fooled by those fémmé fatalés or playboys. If you 'fall in love' be prepared to land. Either that, you are attempting to forget who you really are kissing, and imagining some other person in the act! Hhhmm....maybe the next door neighbour? hehe
This is the other extreme. You are never caught off-guard or asleep on the job. It's hard for you to relax and give in to the enchantment of kissing. Your partner gets more pleasure than you ( although not much! ). Since you are down-to-earth and realistic about relationships, you are never disappointed by romantic expectations. The reason that you've never 'fallen in love' is that you're always in a state of watchful waiting. You are never fully involved with the act and not only that, you are probably thinking about what you would have for lunch....and for sure its not that person you are kissing!
In order for you to feel really secure, you have to hold on strenuously. When you kiss you like to grab your partner tightly -all over- clenching hands, hair, back, behind, anything within reach. It's important to grasp others firmly because there's always the chance that they might let you go first. You attract those who feel protected by your dominance , and this usually works out quite well, for those masochists anyway....hehe...either that, your partner loves you sooo much that they would let you do anything!
You test the water before you jump in, but once you do, you're interested in more than just a few fast laps. Short kisses that slowly mounts to long, passionate ones reflects a cautious -though entirely sensual- individual. Guarded about your feelings, you are very careful about uttering anything that could be seen as a commitment. Just watch out though...if you take too long deciding if you should or you shouldn't, your partner may have moved on to someone else more committed.
You probably do more kissing in public than you do at home. Public kissing is a way of announcing your sexuality to others ( and in the process convincing yourself! ). Your fantasy is that people envy you, although this behaviour is really compensating for a period when you were shy and intimidated. Always a great performer, you would feel more comfortable having sex in a department shop window than in the privacy of your window...Hhmm...that would look interesting...hehe
You leave your mark wherever you go. It's not enough for you to know that you've possessed somebody - everybody else has to know too. You'll romantically carve your initials and your lover's into the side of a lift. Serving as a love tattoo, your love bite warns any potential competition to stay away - this person is yours! ( For awhile anyway..hehe). Often your lovers wind up spending quite a small fortune on polo necks and scarves - especially when mother is around!
You're warm, affectionate, and open. Everybody gets an appreciative peck on the cheek: Uncles, aunts, children, strangers, friends, lovers, ex-lovers, the postman and garbage men. Little do they suspect that behind that loving facade lies an insecure little boy/girl....who is needing that special someone.But that special someone probably thinks that you don't need them, seeing that you're surrounded by your followings...with their eager, puppy dog eyes, waiting for more than the scraps you give them.
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