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Question:
I am 19 years old and I have had two major loves in my life. One about 2 years ago. The other now, I broke up with my first girlfriend Candice and moved on to the girl I am seeing now Andrea. Well I think I really love Andrea but I have cheated on her several times with Candice. Andrea knows this and we have worked through our problems but 3 days ago Candice came over to my house to talk and somehow I ended up having sex with her. Should I tell Andrea? Or should I just forget about it and never let it happen again? If I tell her I think the relationship with Andrea will be over. What should I do?
TTTHow the hell does someone somehow end up having sex? That question always bothered me. It’s like on Ricki Lake when the guy is asked how he ended up sleeping with his cousin, he always says, “it just happened!” Sex doesn’t just happen!
Now I have that out of the way, on to your question. I don’t think that you are truly in love with Andrea. If you were, then you wouldn’t keep hopping into the sack with the ex. I think LUST is the word you are looking for. My advice is that you tell Andrea; a relationship built on lies is doomed to fail. And I don’t believe for an moment that you wouldn’t sleep with Candice again. No way. Opportunity arose once more and you’d be doing the horizontal Mmbo all over again.
Breakup with Andrea now, save her the pain your consistent infidelity will bring her. She doesn’t deserve it. Then work out what is left between you and Candice. There is obviously still a lot there to hash out. You may end up with no girlfriend, but that is what happens.
And for god’s sake, wear protection!!!!!
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