May 2
"Love...keeps no records of wrongs." 1 Corinthians 13:5b.
In yesterday's meditation we considered the first four commandments for a happy marriage.
Today we continue these suggestions written by an author who herself learned through
prayer and hope that marriage is forever and, with God's help, it can be happy, as well.
5.Don't have the last word. Let God's Word be the last wordto yourself. If need be,
write a rational and caring note during those times when you can't verbally communicate.
6.Forgive, as God has already forgiven us all.
7.Give thanks often to God for this person, and then give thanks to the person. 8.Don't
discuss marital problems with "sympathetic" friends who you know thought the
marriage to be a big mistake anyway. This can be the death knell.
9.Be grateful for this set of circumstances and see in this situation the opportunity for
spiritual growth. 10.Make the first move, with whatever words are necessary. You can
simply say, "I'm sorry," or "Please forgive me." Believe me when I say
this works!
Ms. Sawyer also talks about the IOU'sthe records of wrongswe accumulate and
stuff in a drawer and pull out during our stress times. She advises, "Instead of
keeping track of our spouse's IOU's, we might try putting our own into the empty space:
IOU for taking on the responsibility of a family; IOU for loving me enough to overlook my
moods; IOU for letting me pursue my hobbies without question; IOU for absorbing financial
burdens; IOU for being willing to stay home alone when I go on fishing trips; IOU for
being kind enough to leave me alone when I need that aloneness.
Pat Nordman ©
Excerpts from today's Spurgeon's Devotions |
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"These all died in faith." - Hebrews 11:13 |
"I pray not that thou shouldst take them out of the world." - John 17:15 |
Behold the epitaph of all those blessed saints who fell asleep before the coming of our Lord! It matters nothing how else they died, whether of old age, or by violent means; this one point, in which they all agree, is the most worthy of record, "they all died in faith." |
It is a sweet and blessed event which will occur to all believers in God's own time--the going home to be with Jesus. In a few more years the Lord's soldiers, who are now fighting "the good fight of faith" will have done with conflict, and have entered into the joy of their Lord. |
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Current Bible Question ?
What was the name of the first judge of Israel?
Previous question and Answer:
Which wife of David's was unable to bear children because she despised his dancing before the Lord?
Michal (2 Samuel 6:23)
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Hold Fast by Cathy Vinson
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One of the hardest areas in
which to forbear is an apparent denial before God. Yet, it is apparent that He at times
responds like this, even with the most soundest of requests. Why would God require this
endurance of us, who Desperately,
helplessy, longingly, I cried. © Send a note to Cathy Vinson
, the writer of this devotion. |
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More Whispers from the Wilderness
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