Welcome new Dom/mes, and tY for being willing to expand Your knowledge on Your craft, W/we hope these words will be a good start to Your learning.
Chat room rules
Submission is a gift that we are given by choice and one that should be well respected.
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Be respectful to everyone in the room at all times, whether they are submissive or Dominant.
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Have a positive attitude. If you are having problems and wish to talk to a friend about it, please do so in private. We do understand that we all occasionally need help and support from our on-line friends. We respect that. All we ask is that it is kept private.
Guidelines for new sub/slaves
Glossary of BDSM terms
Consensual play is a must and harassing the submissive ladies in private goes against the rule's here. The women are here to play and relax. The question becomes how to play and where. a. First make contact in the room....flirt a little there b. If they have not been clear as to what they like ask them to speak in private. A collared sub is one that has committed to a Master, please make sure one of your firstobjectives is to find out if the sub you are approaching is collared.Then ask their limitations.
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c. Allow them to tell you what does and does not turn them on and tell you how to play with them.
d. By doing this you will not have to worry that you may do something with them that they did not want to do.
Consensual play is: Both parties agreeing to engage in the kind of sexual act the participants want. Some very new to D/s do not know what this term means so the experienced Dominants should ask to message privately
and provide the guidance that clarifies the concept of consensual play.
Finding a willing lady to play with: A good way to find a woman that wants to play is:
a. Watch for the ones that are talking in the room: they will do things like go to the couch, kneel somewhere, smile a lot to the Dominants, make coffee, go to the bar, dance around the room and be REAL chatty.
b. A good way to start talking with one of these ladies is ask her to get you a drink that should get the ball rolling.
c. Another good way to get the attention of these ladies to grant them per-mission to enter and/or leave the room.
Some basic room rules are:
a. All play is consensual.
b. Please ask to private message a sub/slave in the room prior to doing so.
c. Blood, animal, toilet, or strangling/asphyxiation play is not allowed in the room.
d. No trolling in the room.
Public collarings: Collarings are a very happy occasion on our home. If you wish to schedule a ceremony there, talk to one of the admins.
 
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