Welcome new subs/slaves, and ty for being willing to expand your knowledge on your craft, W/we hope these words will be a good start to your learning.
Submission
is a gift that is given by choice and one that deserves respect. Being
submissive does not mean being lesser than so as a sub/slave do not feel
that you are required to accept abuse.
Be
respectful to everyone in the room at all times, whether they are submissive
or Dominant.
Entering
a new situation is always intimidating, and whether new to the lifestyle
or simply just new to the room W/we understand how easy it can be to feel
overwhelmed. But please be assured that O/our room, femsubmission and
slavesex, is a friendly, respectful place and welcomes you. Relax and
be yourself.
W/we
also understand that you may feel overlooked or ignored being new, many
have become regular visitors here and formed bonds that can leave some
feeling left out, but keep in mind that at some point they too were new
and faced the very situation you are facing now.
With
a little time they were able to make friends and feel comfortable and
you can too. As difficult as it may seem at first, the best way to go
about this is to interact, feel free to join an ongoing exchange or initiate
one, you will find that there are others just like you sitting hoping
for contact.
Greeting
people as they enter the room is an easy way to start. As a general rule
Dominants names are capitalized and sub/slaves are not, this makes it
easier for you to greet appropriately. Greeting not only makes those entering
feel welcome but allows you the opportunity to be seen and make contact.
Have
a positive attitude. If you are having problems and wish to talk to a
friend about it, please do so in private. We do understand that we all
occasionally need help and support from our on-line friends. We respect
that. All we ask is that it is kept private.
Some
basic room rules are:a. All play is consensual.
b. It is proper etiquette to be asked publicly in the room if you will accept a private message (pm) you are in no way obligated to accept regardless of whom asks, and are always free to ignore unsolicited pms.
c. Blood, animal, toilet, or strangling/asphyxiation play is not allowed in the room.
d. No trolling in the room.
Public
collarings: Collarings are a very happy occasion on our home. If you wish
to Schedule a ceremony there; talk to one of the hosts